X-men SG This is my usual problem too... Can't be smiling all the time right? you are hopy.. not joker Just tell them you are disappointed but not upset. Usually I just tell my friends how I felt and they accepted it and everything is okay. Hope you will have the same results too
extremex SG E + R = O Event + Response = Outcome Event = Usually uncontrollable Response = Attitude you choose Outcome = The effect of how you react So based on the Event, you will choose your response. Choose a good response. and the Outcome will be good