Recently I went for at a major organisation which does leasing
of properties - F*R E***T ORGANISATION.
The whole interview turns out mainly to a personal attack. Was
very disappointed in why this manager who name was Roy speaks in
such unprofessional tone.
This is how it goes..
1. He said, "So.. You are the only child. Only child are all
spolit."
My answer was it depends on individual. He
said, "I know de.. Cause my wife is only
child too."
It doesn't makes sense to me at all. If your
wife is spolit, it doesn't makes all the only
child spolit too.
2. He mentioned that I look different from my picture. In my
picture I look more mature,
but in real life I looked childish. I wonder is
that the right phrasing to use? Is it my fault
that I looked younger than my actual age? As a
manger in the organisation, he ought
to have a better interpersonal skill and a
higher EQ.
3. He asked whether I am independent. I can say I am quite
independent since young. I
could take care of myself, my meals and my
school work when my parents are
working. He told me that his 2 years old son is
always alone. Oh man! How on earth
would any parents leave their 2 years old son
alone. ALONE WITH EITHER
GRANDPARENTS OR MAID OR IN CHILDCARE. Is that
what he mean by
independent?
4. He asked whether I looked more like my mum or my dad? Does it
concern him? To
satisfy his curiosity I told him that I looked
more like my mum. He got the cheek to
insult my mum. "Oh, so when I see someone in
Sengkang who look very childish like
you confirm is your mum"
What is this? Even if I don't perform well in the interview. Is
there a need for you to say such sarcastic remarks? There is no
wrong being direct. But a personal attack is very rude. I wonder if
his position is a HR manager or Marketing manger. But even so, he
has no right to insult anyone. As a HR manager, as a people person,
a high EQ is important, how would your staffs feel when you talk in
such a "mature" manner. As a Marketing manager, I am real surprised
that you did not pissed your clients off.
Its been a real bad experience
