This is an appeal for all that read this message to take action
today.
Nowadays, the importance of communication and interaction skills
between people cannot be more emphasized in this modern generation.
However, there are a category of people in the population who lack
these skills in order to interact and socialize with other people,
and they are usually shy. Of course, there is nothing wrong in
being shy, but to be successful in both your career and personal
life, these skills are usually essential. Furthermore, in this
young generation, these introverts tend to avoid people and keep to
themselves, sometimes to an extreme. While in schools, they are
also known as the Loners. Thus, the society has to help this
minority group to adapt to the social norm, allowing them to pick
up skills to be able to communicate with other people.
Symptoms of anti-sociable people
Easily irritated and sometimes aggressive
Inability to make or keep friends
Disregard for the safety of self or others
Inability to tolerate boredom
A persistent agitated or depressed feeling
Recklessness, impulsivity
Possible causes of anti-sociable people
A family history of the disorder such as having an antisocial
parent
External factors such as an overly punitive home or school
environment
Parents of the child with either alcoholic tendencies, a lack of
consistent discipline and affection, or impulsive behavior.
Genetic contributions
Of course, the above are the possible eventual problems of people
who have poor social skills now. Below is a statistic from the site
Scienceblog.com,
They found that those with disruptive disorders, in general, had
the worst academic performance, the poorest relationships with
family and friends, and the poorest "self management" (taking
responsibility, planning, controlling anger, and being on time) of
the teenagers studied.
Boys with any type of psychiatric disorder were found to have
significant academic problems, as well as more trouble in
relationships with family and friends, and less acceptance by peers
than did healthy boys. There were no consistent, large differences
in social functioning between disordered and healthy girls.
By now, you must be wondering how all of these issues are actually
a problem for them.
As seen, if they lacks in social skills, he/she may become socially
isolated because others have labeled them negatively. For instance,
you may find your them spending the majority of his/her time alone,
playing computer games, watching television and never invited to
birthday parties or other social events.
This results in
..
Theses people that you know becoming more vulnerable when placed in
social situations and may become victimized by social pressures put
upon him/her.
SO , Help these individuals today by communicating more with them.
Never ostracize them but be patient and listen to them. Youll
never know he may soon be your friend.
Extend your hand of friendship today!
