love .. letting go or holding on

DeadPoet SG

X2 Good point. Mr. Green

~ little child ~ SG

haha.. i dunoe hw.i still feel pain.but i do believe tat i wont die wifout him.i dun believe tat one can die due to tat. if sm1 suicide bcoz of lov, i can onli say "silly+stupid". bcoz u nv noe if ur life will b better in e future.
so many guys n gals out there.scare no gal/guy alreadi meh..unless onli left "eve" n "adam"..
: )
we all need time to get over smthin/everythin.. time is e best med in e world. no matter hw sad u r nw..u'll always remember tis hard time n of course u'll tink tat u r silly tat time..seriously..
hw do u tink??

st3phanIe SG

but den duno la.. dif ppl haf dif views abt it de.. so i haf no opinions.. lolx

~ little child ~ SG

ok. so if is u..wil u hold or let go??
wonderin..wat's e longest time of ur relationship??

Hocklez SG

jus a reminder, both parties are here. Wink

Joyce SG

hrmm.. where's de other party?
..like disappeared liao.. Rolling Eyes
y everyone here taking turns to disappear onez.. Neutral

~ little child ~ SG

huh??wat's goin on??
so wat n wat nw??

Hocklez SG

the two parties are here. both use sgforums frequently.

so this it is not a good place to discuss this Wink

the Bear SG

hold on or let go?

hold on to love, let go of loved one..

how's that? Smile

M©+square SG

WEll yes.

You don't let go of Love. You let go of the one you love.

st3phanIe SG

haha.. still haben end.. diz one.. haha..i will hold on i tink..

Hocklez SG

Follow ur heart Wink

M©+square SG

i notice this statement is Something which alot of teenagers use nowadays.

Without knowing the true meaning and saying it.
Hmm...

Hocklez SG

yup, i am a teen.

Think adult said tt too, nv wonder if they truly understand tt too. Wink

the Bear SG

few understand their hearts...

sometimes their heart may dictate something else which may cause more misery...

mayhap a different tack, follow your head.. but tamper that decision with your heart...

just like your heart says to hold on to your loved one.. even when she may want to leave...

but it'll only end in tears if you do...

the head says to let go.. but the heart, when faced with that decision, will say to let her go, but the way that will allow her the least hurt... could be gently, or could be harshly.. depending on what her character is like... in order to give her the least hurt possible...

"follow your heart" is a double-edged sword...

sometimes, everyone around you will be slashed...

and hearts bleed..

Joyce SG

i follow my heart.. i m so in love wif my God.. Mr. Green
n i no i'll never get hurt.. Wink

Hocklez SG

Oh ic... heh. lucky i am not in love with God, btw wat is the gender of them? I got one qn here, wat is god?

Joyce SG

hrmmm.. there is only one God and He is the one who created the heavens and the universe. the earth in which we live in and He who made us. tt we all hav our own unique looks and characters.. tt's God.. He who supplies us with all our needs and who is looking down at all of us from above. we hav no worries about tomorrow for we know He holds tomorrow. Wink

M©+square SG

You know why 'some' adults tend to use that term?
Most of the time it's because they themselves have got no advice or answers to relationship's problems.
When people don't learn from experience and gain sound understanding of how relationship start and why it ends.
They'll most likely resort to 'follow your heart ba...'
Which is indeed a double edged sword.

A wise-d men/women will not advise a friend to 'follow his/her heart' unless necessary. Wink

sgFish SG

how'd you do that?

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