here is something i read abt relationships.. its kinda long but
slowly read ya haha 
Sometimes its important and necessary to detach ourselves from
poeple who, without conscience or regret, damage our souls. No one
should ever tolerrate abuse. But nroaml frienship have ups and
downs, and sometimes, unintentinally, feelings get hurt. Sometimes,
we unwisely shut down these relationships because we don't want to
do the tough work needed to maintain a friendship. I've certainly
felt the temptation to give up instead of giving in and seek
restoration. So, whils sometimes friends need to part for a time so
they can sort out their feelings and study the conflict more
objectively, detaching permantly over puny issues doesn't do anyone
any good.
So to answer the question if i would choose love or friendship, i
would choose love cos without lov, a friendship cannot be
anything.. Friends may have quarrels but with out love these
quarrels will never be resovled..
haha super chim 
so stunned
with my self haha
