seek ur frens' advise. see the opposite parties' response - is
it a clear cut no, with no chance of furthe exploration? or is it a
temporary "not ready" kind of no, meaning there's still chance
after all.
if u ask ard, many will tell u tt the first love is not likely to
be the one for life.
its ur first attempt, hence u will definitely haf put in alot of
effort. but sometimes perhaps u would like to take a step back,
pause for a while, and mabbe look at things from the gal's point of
view? could ur over-enthusiasm scared her off? could it be she
doesnt wan to commit too early?
