one thing I learned though.... after many relationships and
disappointments, those that I had no tears for when it broke up was
cos I didn't put my heart in them.... since that is the case, what
right do i have to ask the other party to commit deeply??
There will always be tears if the relationship breaks and if you
didn't put your heart in it, it's not even a relationship, much
less love. Love is about giving 100% unconditionally and
committing, even if it means bending backwards sometimes.... If
everything has to be according to one party's plans without working
around it or compromises to reach a common ground, the two people
will forever be running in parallel lines and never meet at a
common goal.
