hmm, i didn't get directly involved in this fiasco, but there
are some pts that i think u guys shld think it over... this whole
situation now resembles a mini riot, without any party having a
gain.
fos n co. : u all want bear n co to apologize, but what if they dun
intend to post at all? or maybe they never bothered to come into
this thread to read?
yes, susan is very very easily misunderstood, as she can't express
herself well, be it by words or by speech. but i really do have to
conclude that she did have some weakness that incurred some
thoughts of her to change in some ppl. i shan't explain more,
afterall, she's still my fren.
bear n co. : words spoken can't be taken back, this is true. often
we can criticise anything we dun like, and we often hurt those who
can't take the criticism. i have been in situations where my words
are misrepresented, and even worse still, my words are warped,
twisted such that the original meaning seems to be vile. if u think
of it that way, and on how strong is the command of susan's
language, u shld be able to ascern the problem's surface.
i believe, however, this problem is not as simple as the surface.
it is how u guys look at susan, how u guys perceive her as. no
doubt we can't change the way we see ppl, but by labling her as
such, in ur grp, it isn't fair to her at all.
nel: i noe ur efforts are there, to qwell this unrest, but i think
the ultimatum for this matter to rest will come when fos n co. get
what they want, and bear n co. do not lose what they want (all
chinese want this one). but the main thing is, u posting here, is
met with opposition so far, and ur comments has somehow triggered
more bad blood against bear n co. i think the best course of
action, is of course to let them settle it amicably, and silently.
dun let this matter get even worse.
susan : whether u are the victim, or u are the villian, i dun
really care, but i really wan u to wake up. we have been frens for
so long, and although u did improve urself or at least try to in
these few yrs, ur efforts alwiz never seem to materialize into the
final product. i dun wan u to stay this way, whatever problems u
have, u can alwiz share, but u must also be willing to change
anything, to solve ur problems, otherwise things will never change
for the better, and no matter how many ppl help, u will never get
out of ur situation.
i have said my piece, i won't come into this thread again.
