xiao_shin SG Anyone meet any backstabber/two headed snake before whether is office or friends.... any to suggestion on how to deal with this type of pple?? coz my girl always complaint to me that she has been stab by her collegue. Pls advice..
FireIce SG ming qiang yi dang an jian nan fang so far none in office......there is no need to frens-wise.......got lah....but dun relli bother.....one day, others will see his/her true colors.....
xiao_shin SG but if really those very extreme one? maybe it must depends on one person "de du liang" lor.
epImetheus SG tell your friend to do the same thing to the back-stabber. an eye for an eye. (ni zou chu yi, wo zou shi wu.) All is fair in love & war, what is unfair is just only even fairer.
xiao_shin SG even though there will be still some kind people outside lor.. so you are classified under which category??
epImetheus SG category : (jing shui bu fan he shui) if you don't bother/trouble me at first, i won't give you problems. P.S : purely personal self-evalution only. for a better understanding, go visit me at www.frienster.com
claud SG [quote]Originally posted by xiao_shin: Anyone meet any backstabber/two headed snake before whether is office or friends.... [b]any to suggestion on how to deal with this type of pple?? there isnt any thing that u can actually prevent things from happening, if ppl wanna sabo u, there is nothing to stop it.. u've tried to prevent it from happening in this method, but if ppl are out to get u, u also will ganna one. sometimes WORDS really KILL
xiao_shin SG u first statement sound a bit hostile leh.. hahaha.. no offence hor... say sorrie first if i offenced u.....
xiao_shin SG Originally posted by claud: [quote]Originally posted by xiao_shin: [b]Anyone meet any backstabber/two headed snake before whether is office or friends.... [b]any to suggestion on how to deal with this type of pple?? there isnt any thing that u can actually prevent things from happening, if ppl wanna sabo u, there is nothing to stop it.. u've tried to prevent it from happening in this method, but if ppl are out to get u, u also will ganna one. sometimes WORDS really KILL [/b]aiya there is sure some ways to prevent it one lor.... if no way then how come i post this topics leh... but seems like bo pple wans to participate one leh....
Devil1976 SG Quite common one lah... Unless you work in a UNUSUALLY small working environment...? Usually people just... 1. Bear with it. 2. Fight it. 3. Leave the work place.... Teach you how to handle it? Alas... You teach me lah...??
F.O.S SG You toking abt yourself? else why you work 6 months you become my boss http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=74523
epImetheus SG (xian xia shou wei qiang). strike(or backstab) first before anyone can do it to you. make sure everybody knows how vicious are you. so that no ones dares to backstab you. but then your reputation might not be good after that.
xiao_shin SG ya.. she is working in rather small working environment lor.... according to what u say... you happens to meet this type of person b4???
xiao_shin SG ya lor what u say is true lah.... reputation and rice bowl cannot have the best of the both also... hard to choose...
