i believe marriage can still work out but it takes lots of
patience, trust, communication, etc.
After marriage, we all have to work on how to keep the fire
alive. Like how to make ourselves still attractive to our spouse.
Things get old and we humans tend to get sick of things after they
got old. Our spouses will tend to meet new people of the opposite
sex who are better than us in many ways so that is a challenge.
I do want to get married but I just dont know how to trust
people anymore. My wife have to be my closest friend and I dont
know what am I gonna do if she ever betray me after being
everything I could be for her.
We all can do so much & sacrifice so many for our spouses
but there are no guarantees he/she will appreciate it.