BufPuf SG people who dun mind helping yr friends or whoever...do that extra bit.. even though it is troublesome on yr side..but u feel that..if u dun help..den u won't feel good?.. i always feel like..as long as it don't hurts me..or within my limit.. even though doing that extra bit is a bit troublesome for me..i will try to help.. but i couldn't stand it when some people can 'shamelessly' ride on u..and thought tht u help them is 'li shou dang rang' that type..
extremex SG be too willing and they will climb over your head? those arent called frenz.. beware of them.. frenz need help, of cos even if troublesome, you will help.. but not to the extend of TOO troublesome.. like tat might as well not help cos it'll disrupt wat you are doing... in any case, a little sacrifice wun kill someone lar... wat are frenz for?
SGpork SG if i can..i help....sometimes they ...get too much liao i ... keep quiet..sometimes just close 1 eye n help... becos...if i dont help .. i feel bad... dontknow why.. then when i need help... no one is there... err..
thhong22 SG depends on my terms with them lah..... if reali good frans, i don mind helping as long it's within my limit but if we not so good frans, then mayb i wont lah
kopiosatu SG Duo Zuo, Duo Cuo (Do more, more mistakes) Shao Zuo, Shao Cuo (Do less, less mistakes) Bu Zuo, Bu Cuo (Don't do, no mistakes) Ru Guo Zhen De Yao Zuo, Jiu Yao Shui Bian Zuo (If you really wanna do it, then anyhow do la!!!)
the.raven SG I used to help others a lot even when it means sacrificing a lot of time and energy. then I realized that they take it for granted. and then I realized that no one ever helps me. Bastards. you will suffer, you will ALL SUFFER!!!!
c0mplex SG IMO, just help within the limits......sometimes it's also gd to see who u helping....u know what i mean i personally like helping my friends when they need help.....usually i get nothing in return....but......who knows....i might need them in the future.....
edLow SG me is see ppls then help one. if so-called frds whom i dont really like, i die die also wont give a damn to help them. if normal frd, i try to help as much as possible. if very close frds, even if tat really very troublesome, i will still go all out to help them. oh yeah, i dont like ppls whom think they can do lots of things whom in fact cause more problems to the situation.
harryryan SG yup...yup...yup...i m e class rep....everything also help e class do even if i dun have to.... help a gal in class chase her money back from a cheater.... help another one with relationship problems..... lend money to others.... n e thing is after a while i realise i did not need to do it...but after that more pple come to me for help n it's like ....well u help this so n so...y now cannot help me..... -_-! Being a nice guy does not help sia....
*Lord Kang* SG [quote]Originally posted by SGpork: if i can..i help....sometimes they ...get too much liao i ... keep quiet..sometimes just close 1 eye n help... becos...if i dont help .. i feel bad... dontknow why.. then when i need help... no one is there... err.. [/quote i agree with u..Whenever i need help, no one seems to be there for me..As for me, i will help whenever possible..Normal friends may not always help..Good friends then confirm will help..Those special friend, confirm will go the extra mile for them..
GHoST_18 SG more D L is that u help them and they still complain say u r not doing a good job, this n that...
101wish SG yeah, i got the same feeling too, tink i am soft-hearted lor..tend to tink of them wat happen if they get the help..
wuming78 SG what is your star sign ah? anyway, i will go to lengths for people i love and care about. but sometimes it can be quite tiring, especially when, as you mentioned, all the efforts are taken for granted.
