cAr|n SG i've been organizing some outing for my classmates hor.. wah then when we were all talking about it, everyone quite excited, this extra person come in and pour cold water.. say wat weather hot lah, not exciting enough lah, etc... pour cold water on the participants and the organizer (me) especially!!!! although she never directly tell pple not to go, it certainly feels like she's trying to influence others not to go lor. how can rite... u dun go u dun pour cold water on the participants mah den nvm.. a few days after the outing i found out from another friend that this extra classmate of mine ka jiao wei behind my back.. she say i so quiet person how can organize outing.. go out oso nv talk to pple much.. i admit i really quite quiet and i dun really talk to everybody.. but muz a good organizer be someone who talks to everyone? i organize because i got good organizational skills... i leave the PR to another friend.. is that wrong? as long as everyone enjoyed the outing can liao mah so, how do u guys deal with pple like this? pour cold water when she isn't able to attend and ka the organizer jiao wei after the outing? i very angry lor.. i xin xin ku ku put in effort organizing (and those who have organized outings for a group of about 20-30 pple should know how difficult it is) and instead of encouraging me, she pour cold water.. i know i'm not the best organizer but i can always improve!
Tamade Ultimate SG Tamade Ultimate! This type of tamade ultimate xiao ren everywhere also tamade have one. Just tamade ignore her can liaoz. Don't need to tamade bother about it. You draw line, she'll tamade do more to damage your reputation. Let your friends decide who is tamade right and who is tamade wrong. Everyone got eyes to see one tamade ultimate xiao ren. Tamade Ultimate!
BufPuf SG Xi guan jiu hao i also guo lai ren..kanna label as unfriendly.. from the start u guys noe me in poly..also noe that i super loner 1..won't tok until the other party initate to tok to me... i can't aim to please everybody loh... carin..dun pissed over this kind of people lah...as long as u did yr part in organizing...wen xin wu gui..no need to be bother 1..
the Bear SG what you can do is your best and make it successful then the terrible person has nothing to say and credibility is gone
cAr|n SG thanx for all ur support guys... but i really find it very irritating when pple organize outing and that extra fella come and say bad things about it.. which may influence some to pull out of the activity
OCEANOS SG Aiyo such characteristic fits the bill of "True Evil"... Such Flawed Human Nature is strong in the Latter...God Bless her...
^sylvia^ SG 'use umbrella cover and the cold water will be splashed back on her' now u get what i mean? either you prepare one yourself or use defend then attack her haha don't spare her! just go for it!
Spear SG Go ahead with the plan with your closer clicks. If you can't turn the event into an entire class', then at least disappoint not your friends. Eventually after the event gets pull through and everybody has had a good time, everyone will know and those who didn't turn up can go bang their head against the wall.
^sylvia^ SG woah.. must bang the wall so serious ah.. why don't let the wall bang her? her logic simply irritates even the wall and it comes to bang her! hahaha sorry tok cock pls dun flame
s|nNeD SG just carry on with what you're doing... just do your best... eventually when the turnout is good, your satisfaction will be there... who cares abt what the wet blanket has to say and those that was influenced by it... as long as the remaining people enjoyed themselves, thats all that matters... i'm pretty used to it already... have been organising get togethers for my sec school class for 6 years already... and every year is the same... surely got people say this and that one... pretty immune liao...
SumOne SG If I could, I'd tie this kind of people up, shoot their limbs, cripple them, then bury them alive. Provided I could get away with it. Otherwise, I'll just ignore these people and focus on what's good about the outing. Continue to 'sell' the outing to the other people. End of the day, what matters is that people enjoy the outing and fellowship. At most forget this kind of freak. They don't go also a good thing. Talk so much but don't contribute. Bloody [email protected]
