haha i don't know. i think getting married in a loveless
relationship might be even worse than singlehandedly raising the
kid. i said b4, anyone can be a father, but it takes a really
special someone to be a dad.
like my friends.. the mum's a single mum, and the husband is
from marraige. the child isn't his, but he loves the kid like his
very own. takes the family to zoo thousands of time, dance with the
kid in church during worship, takes them out for meals, does
homework with the kid... and cheering when the kid could count to
10 on her own.
he may not be the father, but he's definitely the dad.
i think it might be better that way sometimes, than to force a
marraige then the father don't fulfil his duty of love to the
kid.
anyway i agree with you. the family structure is very important
for a healthy society.
Marriage is not just about love, it is about responsibility and
commitment too. Yes, i do agree that it is pretty meaningless
to stay in a loveless marriage, but before one calls it quit, he
has to consider all factors including the children's and spouse's
welfare and feelings.
Our feeling is not the only thing important in this world.
We need to be mindful of the welfare and feelings of our love ones
too.
We digressed.
