that's right ... not one but two ....
it's easy to say ... yeah, I farked up ... fell to deeply in
love, got drunk, got carried away, condom broke, the pill didn't
work, whatever ....
fine, no biggie, people make mistakes ... just provide for your
kid as best as you can ... remember, your life is different now,
you have responsibilities, you're responsible for another person's
life, another person's future, parent-hood requires
responsibilities, you may not have asked for it, but you jolly well
try to live up to it ....
but twice ? ....
what does it say ? .... the man doesn't even want to take
responsibilities ... he just wants to be "around"...
maybe I am old ..... I feel for the kids, really ... both of
them ....
one of the reason why i refuse to condemn her.. is because my
church have 1 case like that. pregnant at 18, single mum, but
raised a good kid. and she's a great friend and really a pillar of
grace and love. i really respect her alot.
the kid's now a teenager. real cool too, definitely a gift..
crafted from a mistake. so who knows right? maybe maia might turn
out to be a great mum, and it'd be all well.
then i'll be here sneering at those who condemn her and shooting
off words like "her brains are in her panties", especially more so,
when they themselves get someone pregnant by mistake.