-abortion is an extreme measure: you may injure the mum not just
physically but emotionally as well.
-i've never said they were dim witted did i. im pointing out
that you SHOULD be ready to raise a child before ATTEMPTING so.
yea, she has one, of course she knows how difficult it is to raise
one, so you think she really wanted the baby?
-having children SHOULD be based on financial ability. poor
families continue to have kids because of an assortment of
reasons:
1. lack of contraceptives- be it lack of avaibility or education
in its function
2. the poor families NEED children as they rely on the children
as a form of free labour, think farmers and extra hands.
3.religious or political reasons: china's one child policy/
catholics abhoring the use of contraceptives
4.lack of women's rights
so on. i won't persercute them because for one im not malthesian
and two, its unenthical no?
-the crux of the matter is not her getting preganant out of
wedlock, rather her actions in choosing to engage in unprotected
sex without proper ascertaining the implications.
-getting pregnant through donor sperm is a diff story since the
mother-to-be is prepared emotionally and financially to conceive
and raise a baby to the best of her ability.
*i can't believe you can be so blunt to miss all these.
Dxdx, You really never
think through a lot of these points you've listed hur
?
Don't just regurgitate
what your mother tells you. Think deeper than what is
told.
Reason it out first next
time.
-abortion is an extreme measure: you may injure the mum not just
physically but emotionally as well.
Abortion is an easy way
out.. but keeping the baby is a life time
commitment.
-i've never said they were dim witted did i. im pointing out
that you SHOULD be ready to raise a child before ATTEMPTING so.
yea, she has one, of course she knows how difficult it is to raise
one, so you think she really wanted the baby?
How can you immediately
assume that Maia doesn't really want the baby ? An Ang Moh mix
blood.. who don't want ? And how can you assume she is not ready to
raise another child ? Based on what ? You saw her bank account
before ah ?
-having children SHOULD be based on financial ability. poor
families continue to have kids because of an assortment of
reasons:
1. lack of contraceptives- be it lack of availability or
education in its function.
Please lah. this one
really makes me laugh. Condom not very expensive. You go
7-Eleven ask the cashier how much one packet. You are talking about
Singapore here leh. Contraceptive is not difficult to get
leh. IF no money.. then don't have sex lor... cheapest option
mah.
2. the poor families NEED children as they rely on the children
as a form of free labour, think farmers and extra hands.
Bwahahahahh... this one
lagi best...most humourous. FREE LABOUR ?????... siao boh ? Raising
a child in Singapore is MORE expensive than what a child labour can
earn them OK ? !!!! Goosh.. can you put your thinking in
Singapore's context ??
3.religious or political reasons: china's one child policy/
catholics abhoring the use of contraceptives.
We are in Singapore. If
any of them are catholics.. they will not be having sex at
all.
4.lack of women's rights
HARR
?????
so on. i won't persercute them because for one im not malthesian
and two, its unenthical no?
THIS , I
AGREE.
-the crux of the matter is not her getting preganant out of
wedlock, rather her actions in choosing to engage in unprotected
sex without proper ascertaining the implications.
Um mmm harloww. if she is
a young teenager..yah lah.. I agree.. but please lah..she how old
liao ? Why you all keep assuming she never think it through leh
???? Very jiat lat...just because you are childish doesn't make
everyone around you also childish ok ? Good.
-getting pregnant through donor sperm is a diff story since the
mother-to-be is prepared emotionally and financially to conceive
and raise a baby to the best of her ability.
Getting a donor sperm
MEANS you have a very small gene pool to choose from. If all the
men on donor sperm programs have langa lorry face, your baby will
have a good chance of having a langa lorry face.. you want ah ? I
don't want.
Maia is an attractive
female.. if she can choose a handsome guy to sacrifice his sperm so
she can have good looking babies , why not ?
Also, children of donor
programs don't know who their real biological father
is.
For Maia's case.. the
father acknowledges the child and has mentioned he will take care
of the baby too. This way.. there's father-child
relationship.
*i can't believe you can be so blunt to miss all these.
Uh HUh... I'm blunt.. so
sad.. sob.~
