yea. i'm glad u r able to think this way.
besides, being together with someone isn't the only way to have
happiness. sometimes, even if she's miles and miles away from u,
happiness will still flow as long as u give her ur blessings and
hoping she'll be happy in all her decisions she makes.
i learned one chinese phrase this year: ~
'Xin fu shi rang yi ge ren zuo ta xiang
zuo de shi. zhi yao ta kuai le jiu zhu gou le.'