Do you have to be in love all the time?

last SG · 2005-03-06T11:51:05+00:00

This is a song that has always managed to make me feel hopeful...so hope it will make you feel hopeful as well Yu Jian ting jian dong tian de li kai wo za...

icyprincess SG

Anyone here feels like they can't be out of love for a long time? Like...when you just broke up with someone, you will quickly get together with another person just for the sake to be with someone, just for sake you won't feel the emptiness in your heart?

i.c.y

SGpork SG

nope...

icyprincess SG

think i m currently suffering from withdrawal symptom Sad

i.c.y

the Bear SG

maybe.. as with most withdrawals, you'll get used to not having it there.. then you're home and dry..

give it time... and maybe the next time you fall, will be the one who is good for you Wink

and then you can go to him without any emotional baggage too! Very Happy

icyprincess SG

thing is...the next time I fall, how do I know he will be the good one for me?

i.c.y

browniebaobao SG

i won't get into a r/s if i cant get over my previous r/s..

and...y love someone who will ultimately break ur heart? love urself more!

icyprincess SG

if I can control myself like this, I will not get into trouble le last time...

i.c.y

Mr Chumpa Woompa SG

Transfer…. that love you have to elsewhere? There are many other things in life that need our attention and our love… like orphans and stray animals. Love is a very strong emotion, ahh. And maybe it doesn’t always have to be romantic love.

icyprincess SG

I seriously want to transfer it to animals..but too bad I can't have pets in my dorm Confused

i.c.y

OrneryBoy SG

Is it that important to satisfy your own desire(emptiness) rather to truly love someone?

monkeybusiness SG

hmm...
i am single and currently happy with life.. Smile

icyprincess SG

It is not my desire to satisfy my own emptiness...it is more like something I can't have control over...

i.c.y

jojoma SG

even fish or hamsters? They can be easily kept. Very Happy

It's not healthy to transfer your love to another person, if you are not ready and have not given up the previous one.

Try to control for 3 to 6mths... in between think and sort out your own emptiness and prob, okie? Wink

icyprincess SG

I wish I can keep hamster...
Yea, right now I am not doing the transfering yet...I am just a bit confused that's all...

i.c.y

browniebaobao SG

hmm..to me i feel that..it's unfair to the later guy if im with him yet i cant forget the previous one..my heart can only occupy one person each time.

Mr Chumpa Woompa SG

You don't have to look very hard to notice that your friends and your family need all the love they can get from you.

And you also barely have to look at all to know that there are several unfortunate people in our midst who need some warmth, having suffered at the cold cold hands of their Fate. Wink

Aiyah. Or just find something else to do, like a fun physical activity such as wakeboarding or something... to take your mind off it.

There's so much more to life than just loving another person! Life is so vibrant, and it's ever-changing. It's neeeeeeever boooooring.... Razz

keuriseudo SG

Your love will never be whole until you are whole in the inside. Wink

S.H.I.N.

Patrik SG

I have been loveless for so long….

keuriseudo SG

Me too. But take it like a man ya?!

icyprincess SG

hmm...I have always believed in this...love will come when the time is right..and it will come when you least expect it, not when you are looking for it...

So meanwhile, keep yourself busy with other things in life, go out and meet new people, and one day she will show up in your life Wink

Love...will always be a surprise.

i.c.y