Dun really agreed with all of it.
1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't
want you, nothing can make him stay.
2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
3. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a man's character,
leave him alone.
4. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you
fromheartache.
5. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not
meant to be.
6. Don't force an attraction.
7. Slower is better.
8. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you
truly happy.
9. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as
you deserve then heck no you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't
mistreat a friend.
10 Have faith in God regarding your relationship, but don't let
faith make you stupid. God does things decent and in order.
11. Don't settle.
12. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably
is.
13. If he keeps changing his mind about the relationship- -take
that as a BIG sign that he is unstable. Do you really want to be
with a man like that?.
14. Don't stay because you think "it will get better". You'll be
mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not
better.
15. Honorable men take care of their business and aren't involved
in a whole lot of mess.
16. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
17. There's only one 'reason' a man dumps you; he doesn't want
you.
18. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of
different woman. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
why would he treat you any differently?
19. You really do have to kiss a few frogs before finding the
prince.
20. Always put yourself and your happiness first.
21. Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
22. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something
bothers you, speak up.
23. Like from the show Sex and the City, if he doesn't call, he
just isn't that interested.
24. Be honest and upfront.
25. Know when to cut the cord, don't be strung along.
26. Don't fall for the "I'm confused role". Remove yourself from
the situation to let him figure things out (but don't wait for him,
move on).
27. If you want to have a clue as to how he will treat you, watch
how he treats the WOMEN in his family (not just mom).
28. There's more than physical abuse, there's emotional and mental
abuse. If he causes any of them....flee.
29. You cannot change a man's behaviors. Change comes from
within.
30. Don't let him place rules on you that he is not willing to
follow himself -- double-standard.
31. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you
are...even if he has more education or in a better job.
32. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more
nothing less.
33. Demand respect and if he can't give it, he can't have
you!
34. Don't compete with other woman, but be aware that men are
attracted to what they see.
35. If you think he is cheating, he probably is. Confront him right
away and if you feel he's lying, let him go.
36. Actions speak louder than words.
37. Never let a man define who you are.
38. Never rely on a man for compliments, look to yourself for
that.
39. Never borrow someone else's man.
40. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
41. Just because he says he loves you, doesn't mean that he won't
hurt you and it doesn't mean that you are meant to be with
him.
42. To use painful hard-won wisdom -- 'get it right' the next
time.
43. Know that you deserve to be the number one person in the life
of the. 1person in your life.
44. Love is a verb ...
45. Learn to give up your lifelong task of trying to make someone
unavailable-available, someone ungiving-giving, and someone
unloving-loving.
46. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat
you.
47. All men are NOT dogs.
48. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is
a two way street.
49. If you don't love self...you can't love anyone else.
50. You cannot mend someone else's broken heart.
51. You need time to heal between relationships..... there is
nothing cute about baggage..... deal with your issues before
pursuing a new relationship.
52. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you.... a
relationship consists of two WHOLE individualss..... look for
someone complementary...not supplementary.
53. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be
Mr.Right.
54. NEVER give more in a relationship than you are getting out of
it.
55. Never become your man's "therapist".
56. When actions and words conflict, believe the actions. Respond
to the actions.
57. A real healthy relationship requires two people. One person can
end it - but it takes two to make it work.
58. Don't fall for the "I'm not the loving type".. when a man loves
you there is nothing in this world (within reason) that he wouldn't
do for you
59. Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always know where you
are, and you're always readily available to him he takes it for
granted.
60. Give him his space...let him go out with his boys don't
pressure him to spend time with you, You cant force a man to hang
out with you.
61. If you wouldn't allow your daughter to be with him you
shouldn't.
62. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you
later.
63. Never move into his mother's house.
64. Provide financially for yourself and don't depent on
anyone.
65. Never co-sign for a man.
66. Never believe you have the perfect guy and he is so
innocent.
67. Never spoil your man; let him spoil you.
68. Never let a man mess up your credit.
69. When it's time to let go; let go.
70. Good men should be treated like good men.
71. Don't play games.
72. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything
that you need.
73. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
74. Compatibility in terms of educational attainment, values,
beliefs, personal and career goals, and socioeconomic status, are
important.
75. Never date a guy who wears colored contacts.
