Love=Pain?

icyprincess SG

If you speak Hokkien, mebbe you would realize that the way to say love or adore is the same way as saying pain (dia). Ever wonder why that is?

i.c.y

kops21 SG

Hokkien always fall flat on Love. Wink

icyprincess SG

wat do you mean fall flat?

i.c.y

ditzy SG

He's putting it in a nice way that Hokkiens are hopeless when it comes to affairs of the heart. Laughing

InnoHippo SG

Shocked Shocked Shocked

Love u always = Pain u always

Confused

icyprincess SG

no wonder me and him got no hope Crying or Very sad

cos we are both hokkiens..*sigh*

i.c.y

OCEANOS SG

Merry Meet icyprincess sweetie,

"Ai Duo Jia Zhai Tia" by Huang Yee Ling has the best description. Love comes & goes, why bother? Most important in Life is to be Happy! Don't just wallow there in Sadness, Do something about it...Girl...

Oceanos Kor Kor sayang you...

Blessed Be,
Oceanos

monkeybusiness SG

oso found tat hokkiens hate horse...

always say "sibeh bla bla bla" where beh is horse Rolling Eyes

go and play = chit toh( wipe the peach)
attend dinner = jiak toh(eat table)

icyprincess SG

Originally posted by OCEANOS:

[b]Merry Meet icyprincess sweetie,

"Ai Duo Jia Zhai Tia" by Huang Yee Ling has the best description. Love comes & goes, why bother? Most important in Life is to be Happy! Don't just wallow there in Sadness, Do something about it...Girl...

Oceanos Kor Kor sayang you...

Blessed Be,
Oceanos[/b]

I dun mean to wan to wallow in sadness, just sumtimes really really cant help it..

I feel like a scorpion which, when facing its enemy, would rather sting itself to death when there is no other way out...

i.c.y

Patrik SG

Like falling down,we fall in love and hurt ourselves.

harryryan SG

whoa...suicidal Scorpion...first of its kind!!!!

Gackt247 SG

things may be going tough.. memories r painful.. but still we have to live on.. so make do with it n move on as much as possible.. sb else is waiting for u out there.. Wink

cheer up icy..

icyprincess SG

today I feel different...

for the first time in a week, I feel free...and lighter, as if a burden has been lifted from my shoulder...

I think I am ready to move on, and accept things as they are, accept that we are just not ready to be with each other right now. I remember what he told me once, to take things as they come and that everything happens for a reason...

Suddenly, all of that makes sense now...

i.c.y

Gackt247 SG

Hey i'm happy for u.. Wink

icyprincess SG

actually this mood is kinda volatile..as in it changes...like yesterday morning and afternoon I was feeling good abt things, then suddenly at night I was feeling extremely depressed Sad

i.c.y

Patrik SG

You gotta get used to it

~Lyn~ SG

sadly, love can really be a pain at times.. the worse thing is the more u love the person, the deeper the pain will be..

icyprincess SG

yea...and depends on how emotional you are, and how much you care about the other person at that time...

for me, I care a lot at that time, so now it is still hurting to know that he doesn't even care as much as me Sad

i.c.y

keuriseudo SG

I don't know. But definitely nothing to do with language spoken.
Nothing to do with races.

True Unconditional Love (Agape Love) = Risky but Willing Sacrifice

browniebaobao SG

By the way, it's 'tia'.

Tia = teng (dote), same writing as pain

Anyway, love is pain..perhaps when you can't be together with the one you love..there could be many reasons..but I believe, when one is in love, intially, it's sweet. It is always after the break up then these sweet memories become painful memories.