Nothing wrong with liking your best friend

Joshua1975 SG

The guy I'm with today started out as my best friend, and he still is. Just because they're close to you doesn't mean you're inclined to only stay the way you are - infact being in a relationship with them could bring you even closer.

If you make things clear to your friend and discuss how you feel then even if they don't feel the same way (which is pretty unlikely) there will be less tears shed later Smile They're probably finding it difficult to make the first move as you're so close and they're scared of harming you and your friendship so pluck up the courage and spill your heart out.

If you never say anything then you WILL regret it at some point in your life and perhaps make your friendship awkward. You can't hide from your feelings Wink

by Sarah

icyprincess SG

haha..my ex crush was my best guy fren here, and he still is. We can spend the whole night talking abt all sorts of things, and he has overnighted in my place a few times. I used to like him a lot, but when I told him, he told me that he can't see me as someone more than friends...so that's what we stay as now...

i.c.y

Joshua1975 SG

Good for you. Guy are more EZ on this but for gal... "We" had known each other for some times and one day I told her, she say nothing and from than on, most of the time will be NO for this NO for that? haha.
Crying or Very sad

icyprincess SG

well yea, i can understand...actually sumthing like this is happening to me now wif another person...he asked me to be his gf but i think he really just sees me as a close fren, but cos i expect too much from him, i told him i can't go out wif him anymore le... Crying or Very sad

i.c.y

Joshua1975 SG

it always nice to love and to be loved. as for me it still good to know I can still give love.

icyprincess SG

yea, but there is a limit to it. I have been the one giving love most of the time and more often than not, the person I love wun appreciate how I feel towards him.

i.c.y

Joshua1975 SG

someday someone will. I always look at the bright side.

icyprincess SG

yea, dats wat i m trying to believe in as well....

i.c.y

Joshua1975 SG

Rolling Eyes trying? dun try, do it. hahaa

icyprincess SG

I am doing it la, otherwise I will be crying my eyes out already...

i.c.y

Joshua1975 SG

crying is good, it oso the best way clean you eye without using eyemo. Wink

"Letting it go and if it come back, it yours."

Now I worried what if all come back at one time? hahahahaaa.

icyprincess SG

there will be chaos.
but for my case, i think it will not come back le...i have accepted the fact that we are both just too different, too young, too inexperienced to be together...

i.c.y

Patrik SG

yupe..there is nothing wrong..
Reminds me of the time when we were like the best of friends.
Now she is happily attached and we no longer keep in contact le.
Sad

icyprincess SG

it is always dat way...once someone is happily attached, forget all abt frenship... Rolling Eyes Confused

i.c.y

Patrik SG

Haiz
Crying or Very sad

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oh crap…

Joshua1975 SG

I dun know about you, I have heard of ladies going back to old lover but never any guys did that.

Patrik SG

Hao ma bu chi hui tou cao?

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people already say don't want me, how to go back? Laughing
anyways, im an ugly, unloved, troll child. no one will want me.

Joshua1975 SG

Ooi, you case is ppl reject you leh. how to go back that i dun know?

I am referring to those gal who walk out of the bf, and most will go back to the same bf when they find the one is worst.