do you stop yourself from loving sumone so dat u wun b hurt?

last SG · 2004-12-07T14:03:15+00:00

sighhh...seems like soon i will turn asexual too i.c.y

icyprincess SG

do u think it is rite...if we dun love someone too much? just to stop ourselves from getting hurt too deeply? prolly cos i have had really bad experiences in the past, now i m more cautious abt falling in love, so feel quite tiring cos I have to stop myself from falling for him evday...sighhhh

i.c.y

SnowFlag SG

i will Cool

icyprincess SG

do u find it tiring?

i.c.y

skeujin SG

wen yr truly in luv. there's no such thing as 'putting on the brakes'

i knw tt from experience...

Devil1976 SG

Cool

I'm not totally afraid of her as much as I'm afraid of what I can do to myself...?

icyprincess SG

but an put a brake on when it is still 'new'..so wun get too deep into it...

yea, i m selfish.

i.c.y

icyprincess SG

wat u tink u will do to urself?

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798 SG

yes! Crying or Very sad

no point... really no point...

icyprincess SG

why no point? u tink it is no point so u stop loving her??

i.c.y

skeujin SG

if u wnt commit to a r/s.. mite as well dnt b in one.. jus get a F bud...

icyprincess SG

I am not in one yet...I am now in between, dats y I dun wan to start falling for him yet because I do not know whether this will last or not. Or whether he will end up hurting me badly or not...

i.c.y

frOst^~^nOva SG

yep. it happened to me a few times already. well i guess it's life Crying or Very sad

jusgal SG

TIRED

skeujin SG

take a luk in this thread i posted some time back

http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=70732

icyprincess SG

last time i used to love with abandon. but I got 'burned' a few times already. dats y now, I am more cautious.

i.c.y

icyprincess SG

so how's it now? happy? Very Happy
i hope so.

i.c.y

skeujin SG

im hapi.. it has its ups n downs.. ive learned tt there is no perfect r/s... its made up of sacrifices n compromises.... n plenty of TLC...

Wink

LilO gIrL SG

I cannot stop myself from loving him.

I can only hate myself for loving him.

And that will make me feel that I am not fit to love him

And...i will give up.

Crap! Duno what am I talking about.

Ice79 SG

yes i will. especially if i'm uncertain if i am ready for that relationship. but some chance once missed, may never have a 2nd time Crying or Very sad

icyprincess SG

these few days back...he showed me a lot of TLC le... Embarassed
but still a part of me, is really, really afraid to take the risk...

i.c.y