Depressing entries are more thoughtful??

icyprincess SG

*sigh* talk about ppl never being satisfied with what they have...One of my frens messaged me to tell me that she used to like reading my blog, but now my entries are just plain shallow. Last time they used to tell me that my entries are too depressing, so now I stop writing depressing stuff, they are telling me that i am not thinking deep enough. I do not know what to think anymore.

i.c.y

BeEtHoVeN SG

lol i agree ! entries that are tainted with sadness are more popular Wink
no idea why, maybe it is all in the heart ?

skeujin SG

iys yr blog.. write wat u want. if u write wat people wana read... its more of a story telling session....

its yr life.. live it...

the Bear SG

they ain't you...

let it be...

frankly, being happy, is severely underrated! and people equate happiness with frivolity...

being sad, traumatised and all that, very drama.. but to me, not worth the suffering... so stay happy, okay? Wink

if they want you to be miserable just because they want a "drama" blog to read, they just showed how shallow they themselves are!

icyprincess SG

I wrote depressing entries last time cos I was feeling depressed.
I am beginning to feel better now, so now my entries are more cheerful, like they contain more jokes, etc.

i.c.y

icyprincess SG

yea..but I think recently I have stopped writing about my "private" life...cos I don't think it is appropriate to write about what is happening between the two of us, since we are not official or anything yet...

plus I can write cryptic entries to somehow convey my sadness...but somehow to write a cryptic entry to convey my happiness, that's harder to do. Surprisingly so...

i.c.y

[email protected] SG

i don’t even bother with blogs. ppl know when something’s wrong when i start acting insanely happy, or when i’ve got blood stained clothes.

icyprincess SG

yea, I think some people just love reading about my "private" life...they know there was one point of my life (which is not too long ago) when I was feeling extremely emotional and when I get emotional, I can't really keep secrets, so they have more things to read and gossip about. But now that I am feeling happier and contented with life, I have a better control over what I write...

i.c.y

icyprincess SG

Mr. Green
I started my blog because I wanted a place to channel my feelings I guess.
But recently I started to realize that a lot of other people are interested in how my life goes...even tho sometimes it is really none of their business...

i.c.y

[email protected] SG

they r just voyeuristic really.

m)phosis SG

hmm i nv believe in a blog.... like reporting strength like tat haha... no matter wa u do wad happen dun need to let others noe ma... so no point writing ur daily life happenign and postng it on the net letting others noe.. hmm.. Neutral

icyprincess SG

yea...sometimes it is flattering that people actually bother to read about what I think(esp when I just write crap) but sometimes it is kinda scary to have so many people looking and peeking into my mind...

i.c.y

BeEtHoVeN SG

that is good Razz
depressing stuff are better left untouched unless necessary Mr. Green

Danisdead101times SG

well...why care about what other says? that is your blog and what you wanna write is all about yourself can't you just write about your depression all day long isn't it?

just reply them...thanks for your k-p-o... Cool

icyprincess SG

well, i dun just write about my daily life like oh, 8am I went to brush my teeth, then 9am I went to school, etc...it is more of like reflecting on the things that have happened to me during the day and writing abt the things that matter to me...sometimes they might just be things I have seen or heard, they might just be my thoughts about certain incidents or even feelings that I have had. Or they might just be about jokes or songs that I have heard...sometimes just thought they might cheer soemone up... Mr. Green

i.c.y

[email protected] SG

when i want ppl to know im feeling insane, i can always just yell at them.

icyprincess SG

I guess... sometimes I can't find people to talk to me about it, and I can't just keep them to myself because they will keep going around my head and I can't do anything else other than brood and dwell on them. So my blog is kinda theraupatic in that sense, it helps me to get things out of my system Mr. Green

i.c.y

[email protected] SG

in my case, i just write poems.

icyprincess SG

hehe...the poems i wrote...mebbe u did see them in the forum somewhere yesterday. I dun think they are really poems tho, just bits and pieces of my fragmented thoughts...

i.c.y

skeujin SG

to me a blog is whr u put yr tghts down tt u wana share with the world...

not a place to write yr secrets or air dirty laundry...

write way u want.. but b prepared to accept compliments or critisizm...

at most do what russel crowe asked of his audience in gladiator....

"ARE YOU NOT ENTERTAINED?!"