Can feelings be developed over time?

icyprincess SG

Got a very simple question here..

Do you all believe that feelings can develop over time? As in right now, there is a guy who likes me but I don't really like him that much yet...not as much as I like the other guy tho, the one who hurt me a lot...

But I have been going out with him, sometimes very touched also la by the things he has done for me...but still the feeling is not quite there yet. Do you think I can develop it over time? Do you believe that love is something that takes time to grow?

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Kenashi SG

I think so.
Love is a feeling, it can grow!!!
Better to be loved than to love another.
Although I don't practise that lah since I feel it is unfair to the gal.

OrneryBoy SG

it takes time.. go out with him and know him better..

just dun use him during this period for sake of what the other u hated Very Happy

Axelheat755 SG

And the answer is.....YES!

Provided the guy doesn't do anything to annoy you Laughing

icyprincess SG

why is it unfair to the girl?

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icyprincess SG

Originally posted by Axelheat755:
And the answer is.....[b]YES!

Provided the guy doesn't do anything to annoy you Laughing [/b]

dun tink he will ever do anything to annoy me lor...he is the very considerate type...

but i dunno...i cant talk that much to him lor...i can talk more to the other guy...some of my frens said this one is very shy so have to give him time hehe....

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Kenashi SG

I'll be making her wait until I sort out my feeling, which may take up till 3 yrs.
That's how long I took to forget the gal I love b4 although she still has a place in my heart.

Kenashi SG

Gd guy, U should treasure him.

icyprincess SG

mebbe she will always have a place in ur heart...

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icyprincess SG

Yea I am trying to....and mebbe i m kinda afraid to love again after all the pain i have suffered..

i keep asking if he is worth it or not...

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Kenashi SG

true, but more to sense of guilt for making her wait for me.
I don't think any gals want to have a relationship based on that.

Kenashi SG

Same situation as u.
After being rejected by the one I love, I wondering whether there is anyone who will love me as much as I will love her.
At least u found someone who love u dearly.
Ask yrself whether u will miss him if he is gone from yr life.

icyprincess SG

I think I will...

There was once I think he wanna gave up on me already...like 2 weeks din contact me or anything then I keep wondering if he still likes me..

Then after dat he asked me out again...so now I think okie oledi lor..

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Kenashi SG

U didn't call or sms him during those 2 wks?

icyprincess SG

got lor..i will message him but then he always said he is busy...cos dat time exam time oso la...then after dat i went on vacation oledi...

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Kenashi SG

At least u got sms him otherwise I thinking u really not a bit interested in him siah.
Either he is busy or he is deciding whether to continue this relationship with u.
Have u given up on the other guy who treat u badly yet or r u still waiting him?

icyprincess SG

gave up liao..

i cannot tahan oledi...waited too long oledi..1 and 1/2 years and like got no response from him...and kena "rejected" oso oledi the other day...

i just tink dat mebbe i shud treasure ppl who care for me more..

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F.O.S SG

Can, just like my dog, I don't really like dogs but after few year when he die and I feel so sad Crying or Very sad

Thats why I always bring my GF out for a walk in weekends, incase 1 day he leave me I won't feel so guilty Laughing

Kenashi SG

Yap, treasure them, they have shown u their love n care.
Better than those who didn't even respond.
All the best in yr relationship with the nice guy.
Wink

icyprincess SG

haih..we dunno wat we have until it is gone from our life...

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