Can someone explain why?

last SG · 2004-09-24T00:32:22+00:00

darling icy... read again yah? *gives u a sisterly HUG* agreed fully with ya, d ever wise bear

icyprincess SG

Yesterday night, after I am done with all my assignments, i went to sleep. And while I was trying to get to sleep, suddenly I was overwhelmed by my emotion. I realized at that time I do still miss him.

He treated me like dirt. Why is he the one I felt connected to? Why do I feel empty now, after I have not seen him for more than two weeks...I am the one trying to avoid him anyway. He messaged me the other day but I just ignored it because I do not want this to drag on. And yet, late at night, I was the one suffering...

i.c.y

Evanglion SG

thats what i called ” you ai you hen” Love hate

icyprincess SG

yea. sumtimes I really hate him. but yet I can't forget him *sigh*

i.c.y

sleepycat SG

dun trust your feelings all d time lah...ignore them d way you ignore him.

in the first place, you may b too stressed with your assignments so psychologically, your mind will indulge in anything that vaguely reminds you of work.. and what better venue than to think abt/of a man.. men r NO. 1 distraction for women neh..

also.. u muz have avoided him for valid reasons in d first place, do not forget those reasons..

observe yourself a while more.. dun b too quick to get troubled loh..

.... chillzzz.. did i talk alot? Cool

SnowFlag SG

icy,

dun worry. it will take some time to let go. just remember that there are many good trees around Mr. Green

kaobeikaobu SG

dun intentionally avoid him or suppress ur emotions...face it. it takes time....i mean maybe quite sometime...but it will definitely take even longer if u give up a chance to redeem urself n to avoid urself.
u will nt be alone as u have friends aro u... Wink

Kismet SG

Yeah, there is a fine line between love and hate.
You wouldn't hate someone so much if you hadn't originally loved him/her in the first place.
That's why sometimes you see those love stories whereby bitter enemies grow to love each other through time ...
Or beautiful lovers become sworn enemies when things turn sour.

For you, keep the beautiful memories in your heart where you can easily recall whenever you are down ...
Bad memories, best to bury them as far as you can so that they won't be so easy to be dug out ...
Add layers of time, slowly they will cover all such unhappiness ...

sleepycat SG

*gives icy a LARGE axe*

go chop 'em .. chop 'em! Mr. Green

SnowFlag SG

sleepycat is one of those good trees Mr. Green

sleepycat SG

what treeeees lah?
i'm a F L O W E R ... a redred R O S E neh Embarassed

SnowFlag SG

i like roses. mind if i pluck it? Mr. Green

mahai102 SG

forget that f.ucker lah...pm me for a good time... Mr. Green

sleepycat SG

goOoo buy one fOr yaself lah... y muz u pluck?
teacher neber teach u is it?

SnowFlag SG

snowflag went to buy a red red rose Embarassed

icyprincess SG

hehe thanks for the response Smile

yea mebbe I am too stressed oledi...have told myself times and again I must not get distracted..

actually when I am surrounded by work, I wun feel so lonely but it is late at nite I would start to feel lonely and all empty...

i.c.y

icyprincess SG

Originally posted by kaobeikaobu:

dun intentionally avoid him or suppress ur emotions...[b]face it. it takes time....i mean maybe quite sometime...but it will definitely take even longer if u give up a chance to redeem urself n to avoid urself.
u will nt be alone as u have friends aro u... Wink [/b]

teach me how to face it. last time I always forced myself to face it, in the end I ended up liking him back...

i.c.y

icyprincess SG

oh I keep them where they are easily recalled...dats y everytime when I recalled them I would start crying....sumtimes I think it is better if I dun recall...if I can just forget everything that we have done together...

i.c.y

SnowFlag SG

think of your present love

think of his unwillingness

think of your new resolution

actually things takes time to change. Moving on, and not looking back, is a lesson we have to learn in life.

sleepycat SG

sleep earlier at night? go gym in d evening or drink a glass of wine before bed..

*enjoying my very sweet intoxicating muscat now*

chillzzz Wink

icyprincess SG

Yes there are a lot of them around. But I do not feel that connection...if you know what I mean...like I can't feel the chemistry, the bond between two souls that I had felt when I was with him last time...

i.c.y