Should I give?

last SG · 2004-09-23T09:26:18+00:00

read oledi...and posted a reply there too.. i.c.y

icyprincess SG

Hehe...actually got another question I need opinion on...

Alrite, mebbe soem of you know that I like a guy very very much. His bday is coming. yea I know. I am a loser. a moron. I shouldn't be remembering that. Then I remmeber last time we went on a trip together he saw this thing (it is a wood carving) that he likes very much but he din get it cos it was too expensive. So I surfed the Net and found one that looks similar but it is cheaper but actually it is still expensive la (original price was 120, the one online is 50)

So my question is....should I get it for him or not? Do you think he might know my feelings for him once I give him that as a present? But really feel like getting it for him altho if I really get it, it means my whole week of salary gone la...actually I dun mind lor, it is just how he thinks about this bothers me. Like is it very revealing that I have feelings for him once I give him that gift? He would know it is not cheap...

Opinions and suggestions pls. Smile

i.c.y

jusgal SG

do it if u feel like doing it.

just make sure u won't regrets.

in life..never regrets live and move forward

SnowFlag SG

if u 1 2 gv, gv lor! Mr. Green

windjammer SG

and incur more debts from your credit card...seems like lesson never learn or you have already found a sugar daddy

Mr. Green

browniebaobao SG

Do whatever your heart tells you to..

I will.. Laughing

jusgal SG

Laughing

icyprincess SG

cos of the unexpected check i recived this afternoon lor... Mr. Green
plus i m working overtime so shud be able to settle my debt soon...

i.c.y

X-men SG

If you think he's worth it thn by all means get it for him.

Value of the gift does not matters.

icyprincess SG

i tink i want to get it for him bcos i know it will make him very happy...last time he kept on talking abt not having it cos it was too expensive...but dunno whether worth it or not la..like i dun even know wats my intention...just wan to make him happy only i guess..but scared he will see thru my feelings lor...

i.c.y

SnowFlag SG

Hint is not enough, must tell directly then he will know Mr. Green

icyprincess SG

dats the thing..i m not sure whether i wan him to know or not...cos it will trigger a lot of consequences...

i.c.y

SnowFlag SG

Are you afraid that he might avoid you after you tell him?

nemo77 SG

it's up to u whether to give or not lor, but this will not change his feelings for you...

for guys, if he likes u, a 'happy bday' will do, hint him a little n he will do the rest if interested...

icyprincess SG

yes. i cant deal wif dat. i can deal wif not being his gf but if i lose him as a fren, i wud be very sad indeed.

i.c.y

icyprincess SG

i dunno why i m doing this. my mind is putting up a battle right now. but my heart wans to give it to him. dunno why my heart is so stubborn...

i.c.y

SnowFlag SG

You must b thick-skinned, cos things dun fall from the sky Mr. Green

Write him an email, telling him that u like him. If he dun want, then u can move on It is that simple.

SnowFlag SG

Tell him, tell him.

gerrykoh SG

If he has been a good friend, then buy for him with no strings attached. Don’t expect him to be grateful & love u in return.

He77AnGeL SG

jus give it to him if u wan..cos i noe tat if u love/like a person u jus wan him to b happy at all cost…follow ur heart ger!!

icyprincess SG

when i follow my heart, there is this nagging voice in my mind dat is telling me dat i m stupid to do all this...

i.c.y