Anyone ever feel like life is so damn unfair?

last SG · 2004-05-05T12:08:33+00:00

u can ask others for opinions - nothing wrong with consulting. but u decide urself based on wats good for u and wat u wan rather than wat u think others wan...

icyprincess SG

Have you ever felt like life is unfair to you? Like you work so damn hard for a certain something and in the end you didn't get what you wish for. maybe because I am someone who believe that hard work will give you everything you wish for. So when it doesn't I feel like I don't know what to believe in anymore.

I used to be motivated by the thought that if I put in a lot of efforts, I will have success. But I have realized now that this is often not the case. Take for instance my exams. I will study my ass off and still manage to get below average. And I will watch my other friends who never study and always copy their homework answers from me get A in all their exams. And I will feel that life is so unfair...

Anyone has been through this before? Sigh..I guess I am not feeling too good today. Maybe because I got my exam result back today and they are not up to my expectation... Crying or Very sad And I have finals coming up in a few days time. And I realized I still think of him constantly and almost cried on my way back home today because I remember how we had been last time. ..Give me strength...

i.c.y

wuming78 SG

trust me, everyone feels the same and experiences the same. try to manage ur expectations and goals mabbe, and dun take things too hard! u got only one shot with this life, and so watever u do, jus do ur best and do wat u wan and be happy abt it! Wink

Ah Ma SG

dn b sad..look at the bright side…._~life is nv perfect…..dn worry be happy

oceanic SG

if u keep thinking life is unfair, u won’t get the best out of life..

Parka SG

Oh yeah. Life is unfair.

But life is balanced.

yunzhongzi SG

Life sometimes maybe cruel to us, but at least we mustn't be cruel to ourselves. I always believe that "Winter may turn to Spring"... it's just a matter of time and perseverance..

Cheers Very Happy

X-men SG

Life is never fair

there's always someone with a better life than you BUT there's also someone with a worse life than you.

Often I would compare why others got to do what they want... got to go overseas for studies... need no worry about providing for the family... got excellent results in school... BUT then when I see those having to quit school when young to help earning the basic daily meals... without the love ones by their side.... not having a place to call their home....

I feel glad and contented that I still got a family and a home which I can go back to the ones I love and loves me.

If you compare... life will never be fair... if you are contented.... life can be just as wonderful as you wanted

coolger03 SG

life is never fair... u have to be contented with what u have... or strive harder for waht u want....

and, listen to happier songs, since u r in foul mood... at least can lighten up the mood a bit... life may be unfair, but u can make it better... Wink

wuming78 SG

always look at the bright side of life!

yah.. easier said than done. Neutral

[email protected] SG

yes of course.

icyprincess SG

Hmm yea..I guess life can be fair and unfair at times..I guess I am now trying to find happiness and failing to find it in both my academic life and my love life, I am starting to curse my Fate. Maybe I should learn to look at the bright side, I should not wallow in self-misery anymore…

12bmyself SG

life is always unfair....... no matter how hard i study got good in exam also kana screw up and down by my parents and teachers in the school cause my dad is a teacher in the school...... and i run to singapore to study to have a piss of mind,,,,, and now... start working... and see all unfair stuff happening in the office.... i was thinking working life so unfair somethimes... hopping 1 day run to new zealand and have a life there and don see anyone...... no office politic have a good rest..... Sad

MooKu SG

Isn’t there anyone who thinks that “Life is fair”?

wuming78 SG

so wat is fair?

MooKu SG

I'm not sure. Didn't give it a thought.

It seems as though almost everyone thinks life is unfair, so it might be interesting to hear from someone who feels the opposite.

icyprincess SG

haha good question Smile

maybe because I keep comparing myself to other people, I feel life is not fair. For me, life will be fair when if you work hard for something, then you get what you wish for...well mebbe it is just me...

i.c.y

MooKu SG

icy... maybe you just lacked opportunities at the right time... keep working at it and you'll succeed one day if you persevere. have faith Wink

[email protected] SG

not me
u work hard to earn something and people get all greeneyed about it, n start slagging u for it, accuse u of buying it instead of working for it, all manner of baseless and ridiculous accusations. how is ti fair in any way?

MooKu SG

it's not fair alright... not fair to those people, cos they've got mouldy minds. Razz

icyprincess SG

Yea people can be such a bitch sumtimes. When you are not successful, you will be taunted. When you succeed, people get jealous and taunt you also. And some successful ppl let the success gets into their head and start acting like ...okie I should stop using cursewords here.