hmmm....
the stable but CMI guy... if he loves you, he will make an effort
to find out how to make love to u right and make you
happy....
the bad boy.. if he loves you, he will try to give you happiness by
improving himself...
ultimately, i still think it's the person's character you're in
love with that matters most... who are you most likely to grow old
with rather than who can bonk better.... Do you think the two of
you can still stand each other's idiosyncracies and love each other
30-40 years down the road? Do you see yourselves walking in the
park, still holding hands instead of shouting at one another?
maybe that will give you a clue...