Why do ppl like to spread vicious rumour?

Fuqua SG · 2005-02-04T11:07:55+00:00

u know wat u have to do. i sincerely wish u luck buddy.

Fuqua SG

A fren just told u that she heard a rumour about u and a married colleague are having an affair. Someone saw you and the attrractive married colleague on couple of occasion having lunch/b'fast together and put 2 and 2 together and eer come up with 5! Bummer. Don't want to hurt anybody ....

What wud u do in this situation?
Tell me why do ppl like to spread rumour.

harryryan SG

cos they r jealous of u n wanna make ur life miserable. Evil or Very Mad

icyprincess SG

if it is not true, just ignore lor...dats wat i usually do, usually it will go away after some time...

these ppl just simply have nothing better to do lor...they have nothing to talk abt so they have to talk bad abt other ppl in order to spice up their life, it is rather sad really...

i.c.y

kops21 SG

like u and ahmen.... Rolling Eyes Mr. Green

Once i went lunch with a female colleague....then kana spotted by the gf's friend. then go and tell my gf hor..... Sad

what's the big deal !!! WTF. Mad

BaByBoY SG

now that i identified them
get away from the as far as possible

Fuqua SG

My life .. i can handle.
But the married girl will get hurt. Her hubby will get hurt.
What's wrong with ppl?

juzded SG

so common already lah and i'm getting use to it, all you have to do is just ignore them.. they're a small bunch of unwanted dried banana-stinko skins of people...they make your life s**ks if you listen to them Twisted Evil

Fuqua SG

maybe that's the best oplicy. just ignore.
but am thinking the potentially damaging effect it may have on OTHER ppl reputations.

how to contain the rumour?
the colleague don't know, the hubby don't know.
shud i tell the colleague about the rumour?

hOmEz SG

well, my galfren pull my eyes....

i was .................. finish liao........

harryryan SG

hmmm...how about sitting down n talking to them b4 e matter gets blown outta hand.... after that...start distancing urself b4 e rumors gets worse...maybe after that...the rumors will just die down....

Fuqua SG

ur gf very understanding .. and good to hear she trust you.
but r/s has been known to be broken over smaller issues

YOU don't want to be the cause rite?

icyprincess SG

Hmm....you mean the one they think you are having an affair with?
No need to tell her la, as long as she din hear it, it wun hurt her...since dats wat u r worried abt.

i.c.y

Fuqua SG

good fren that u can trust r diffcult to find.
ppl generally find it diffcult to keep a secret ...

kops21 SG

me got lost of gfs leh...dunno why they keep coming to me.... Sad

anyway, my gf get use to it already..... Wink

Hey, wanna meet up for kopi at KL next month?

Fuqua SG

ok. this worth considering.

A BIG thank you and cheers ALL for clearing my head.

Fuqua SG

Yeah, i WANNA know why they keep running to YOU too. Evil or Very Mad
Bro, next time, point them in my direction can or not? hehe.

Kopi. sure. let's arrange something nearer the date.

icebaby0 SG

Regardless how ur try to clear the matter up, if the opposite party don't believe u..forget it.

Everything is trust. If ur frens know you well, they will let u know what's going on and they will believe u rather than the rumour.

Fuqua SG

"You are never really single as long as you have yourself..." !!!??
hehe, good one ...

kops21 SG

Let meet up and u see for urself why they keep running or bumping to me. Sad

ok...you can go for updates at Lao Di Fang Wink

Fuqua SG

this makes sense.
i suppose all i want to hear is that my fren hasn't tot the worse of me ...
but if they did, they not my real fren anyway ...

things not as bad as i tot. thanks guys.