Can you be frens with someone you just broke up wif?

last SG · 2005-01-22T12:52:15+00:00

wa..why? cos they are very nasty to you? i.c.y

BabyLover SG

ok actually make it one.. cos one of them ardy met abt 3yrs ago in a fren's bday chalet..thou seen but we wun be frens Laughing

icyprincess SG

got advice for me? Wink

i.c.y

foxwalk SG

nope if the decision is not mutual… then its too painful

icyprincess SG

I think he said he respects my decision, I dunno this is because he doesn't care, but he said he understands, tho he said if I miss him someday, he is just a call away...

Maybe 2 or 3 years later ba, I will be brave enuff to remember all the memories again...

i.c.y

jusgal SG

u find another one who is better worth ur efforts Mr. Green

blowfish SG

the same goes with u.

icyprincess SG

yea...he doesn't appreciate my love *sigh*

i.c.y

jusgal SG

be strong, the next one will be a better one

icyprincess SG

hopefully so. been hurt too many times le...

i.c.y

jusgal SG

me also. but eventually will find the rite one.
u told me a ger must kiss a lot of toads before finding his prince

icyprincess SG

yea...sumtimes i need to listen to my own advice dat i have given to other ppl...

i.c.y

BabyLover SG

u mean u broke up w the one ur kntting for??

Gackt247 SG

Haiz.. if it's not meant to be.. it's not meant to be.. everything hap for a reason..

Somehow i cant bring myself to treat my ex as a fren.. though i would like to.. even if its juz a casual talk.. there was a lot of opportunities in the past as we saw each other everyday.. but it only sends a jolt of pain sorrow n at times resentment whenever i saw her..

i used to perceive myself as immature tt i cant treat her normally like other frens.. but from wat i observe thru time.. seems like most pple cant seem to be able to.. so i guess it's just part of human nature.. but i kinda regret it.. leaving things this way..

i'm considering to do sth abt it.. before i leave for a period of time..

may be i might end up not being able to bring my self to do it..

icyprincess SG

yes. now the unfinished scarf will always remind me of the love I have for him... Crying or Very sad

i.c.y

icyprincess SG

it is not immature..I think he thinks that i am immature cos I told him I can't even be normal frens with him anymore, that i can't go out with him or anything anymore...but he doesn't understand I came to this painful decision because I really do love him very much and if I see him too often, I will never be able to get over him and move on...

i.c.y

zrahf SG

rite after brk up think diff ba…more or less will surely think abt it de…hab to let time pass by 1st….

BabyLover SG

oh sad to hear tat... dun keep it ardy, put it away so dun c it, n wun remind u as much...
*sayang icy*

hopy SG

cannot.. coz i need time to pack away the memories..

Gackt247 SG

tt mentally was tt of the past.. i've learnt tt most pple r lidat.. but i hope to change it.. still considering whether i should make things "right".. probably being frens might be possible.. if i do try.. plus.. time is not on my side for now.. hmmm...

icy.. do cheer up.. as i said in the earlier posts.. memories.. be it sad or happy.. has its values to learn from n treasure.. but rem to do move on.. n alot of things in life waiting for u to explore n do.. including other guys dying to know u.. Wink

icyprincess SG

he came to my room the other day when he asked me to become his gf but after hearing all his reasons, even after he saw the scarf, I cudn't tell him I was knitting it for him...

i.c.y

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