but.. think about it.. to those around, the woman is ALWAYS
totally blameless.. no matter how evil, how wrong, how messed up,
how wrongly suspicious, how manipulative... she is...
she is never wrong...
it is always the guy's fault...
i have noticed this myself.. big quarrel in public between a
couple... the question asked by people around me is "wonder what
he's done?"
frankly, some women have figured this out and have used this to
their advantage...
combine it with tears, the hard-wired need for men to "look out for
womenfolk" and the way people think of ladies as "the weaker
sex"... it makes women formidable psychological weapons...
and it is not beneath some women to use that to their
advantage...
p.s. it hurts? ever thought of the guy? you just hurt them
physically, emotionally, physically and left on him a wound worse
than the emotional scar you say you suffered...
