poor girl 
slimming? nah.. never believed in that...
weight loss for health reasons... THAT is the important
thing...
with obesity, comes a whole lots of health problems which would be
terrible to anyone... diabetes, hypertension, heart problems, joint
problems (especially knees and ankles), lots of other
ailments...
so, weight loss is good sometimes...
however, looking around, looks like most women out there need to
gain weight to get healthy!