InnoHippo SG If something doesn't get done, or done to your standards, you comment. Again. And again. And again. The continual and wearing nagging only stops when your partner obeys. Why? It's a vicious circle. The person being nagged feels pressured so digs his heels in and refuses to do what the nagger wants. The person nagging gets more and more frustrated but doesn't know how to either back off or negotiate. How to fix it? Nagging can signify a power struggle, and a good relationship means both of you work together to meet each others' needs. Long-term nagging can destroy relationships, so it's important to work together to find out what is a reasonable request from each other. Work to improve communication and learn to ask for something clearly. Most importantly, learn to accept 'no' when your partner can't or won't oblige.
cindtan29 SG but hippo.....i dun nag more than once ....the most is twice unless i veru ...e.xtremely upset or angry lor....so how.....i normal bo??
InnoHippo SG ha ha ..... some things take a long time to change .... nagging twice only might not be enough
carpe diem jur SG my fren got power to nag 24hours a day... 6 days a week... only one off day... pei fu pei fu... she nags at her bf.... hee hee....
shinta SG eh.. when i'm sick? he's teh one takin care of me not my family wor... they couldn be bothered..
shinta SG yeah imagine this scenario... nellie: eat med.. shinta: dun wan! den i proceed to sulk n grumble n all that until he threatens me with... i'm gettin angry.. den..i start eatin med
