Your life and work are an integral whole. You are more than just
someone who works. You have many roles in your life: you're a
friend, family member, community member, significant other, parent
and more. You have mental, emotional, spiritual and physical needs.
How well are you balancing your roles and your needs?
Take time to honor your needs, create calmness in your day and
renew your spirit. You will find that focusing on cultivating more
balance in your life can help your work life improve. You will be
more relaxed, better able to focus and better able to produce high
quality work. Coming from a strong personal foundation will
increase your professional abilities and improve your view of your
work.
Begin by considering your personal and professional roles and how
much time you spend each week on each role. Examples of personal
roles are: mother, father, sister, brother, best friend, confidant,
daughter, son, mentor. Examples of professional roles are:
employee, manager, mentor, team member, leader, specific job title.
List each role in your life and for one week, carry around a small
notepad and make note of how much time you spend on each
role.
Next, review your needs in each area: mental , physical, emotional
and spiritual.
Examples of mental needs: intellectual stimulation, diversity of
thought, learning.
Examples of physical needs: food, shelter, water, Exercise.
Examples of emotional needs: love, belonging, security.
Examples of spiritual needs: meditation, religious/spiritual
practice on a regular basis, rituals.
Consider how much time you spend in each area and note which areas
you'd like to spend more time on.
Next, look at how you can make room in your life to take the time
to focus on the needs that have been neglected and the roles you
want to spend more time on. What extraneous tasks can be eliminated
from your life or delegated to someone else? Schedule time for yourself and treat it like any
other appointment.
