Do you know why the
Chinese hang red paper on tombs?
APRIL 4, 2017 Star2.com
MAJORIE CHIEW
Do
you know why there are pieces of red-streaked paper fluttering from
tombs and gravestones in Chinese graveyards today?
It’s because today is Qing Ming, the day when
Chinese people visit the graves of departed loved ones to pay their
respects.
But why the red-streaked
paper?
Traditionally, the red came from chicken blood
(a rooster’s, preferably); the Hakkas hang these “chicken blood
paper” (“kwa huet zi” in Cantonese) on graves to create a barrier
against negative energies or unwanted souls, explains local feng
shui master Jessie Lee.
She adds that, “The paper acts like a talisman,
protecting the living and stopping angry spirits from disturbing
the ancestral worship”. Now-adays, a printed version of this paper
is used instead.
This is why Qing Ming, or “Sweeping the Tomb”
day, is also called “Hanging Paper” day, or “kwa zi” in Cantonese,
says Lee.
Some people, she says, hang five coloured papers
to represent the five elements (wood, fire, earth, metal and water)
in five directions (north, south, east, west, and
centre).
Whatever the details of the rituals, generally,
all Chinese take the time to remember the dead by visiting grave
sites or columbaria to say prayers and make offerings.
While Qing Ming generally falls on April 4 or 5,
traditionally, a longer time frame is set aside for such worship.
It can be between 15 days (a week before and after the actual day)
and 21 days (10 days before and after the actual day).
According to the Chinese solar calendar, the
Qing Ming solar season is from April 4 to April 19. This is because
each solar season lasts 14 days, inclusive of the first day of the
season.
The prayer ritual, Lee says, usually starts and
ends with the throwing of “paper money” all over the grave. This is
to symbolise that the tomb has been inspected for damage and that
family members have visited to pay their respects.
Tombs without the hanging papers or paper money
are said to be “lonely tombs”.
Scattering paper
Legend has it that the ritual of strewing the
tomb with paper started during China’s Han Dynasty (roughly 206BCE
to 220CE). Liu Bang, the dynasty’s first emperor, returned after a
war to find that he can no longer find his parents’ tombs –
graveyards are covered in weeds and most tombstones are broken
after years of conflict.
In despair, Lee says, the emperor resorted to
throwing bits of paper into the air and imploring the heavens to
guide him by letting the paper fall on his parents’ tomb. Sure
enough, he found the ancestral resting place. After the story got
about, the population began to follow suit by placing paper at
their ancestral graves to indicate that they have been
visited.
Married daughters
Traditionally, a married daughter is not allowed
to visit her late parents’ or ancestral tombs. The superstition is
that the married daughter will take away the good qi (energy) to
benefit her husband’s family.
In the old days, tradition favoured the sons in
the family; they were the ones that drew whatever luck or wealth
and good qi was around. This was why families would allow only male
descendants to mark Qing Ming.
But in the much smaller families of today, what
if the married daughter is the only child? Lee raises this
thought-provoking question and goes on to say that it is good that
people are becoming more open-minded nowadays and see these
traditions merely as a means of expressing filial piety.
The newly departed
Families do not observe Qing Ming if their loved
ones die close to the day itself; however, Lee explains that people
might not realise that prayers can still be performed at new graves
in the first two years, just on different days.
“A different type of paper money is used – shops
selling Chinese prayer paraphernalia can advise families on what to
buy,” she says.
Within the first year of the death, the new
grave should be “swept” (that is, Qing Ming should be observed)
after Feb 4 – which is lap chun, or the beginning of spring – but
before April 4. In the second year after the death, a date after
March 20 but before April 4 should be chosen. And from the third
year onwards, normal practice resumes.
Legend of Jie Zhitui
Feng shui master Yap Boh Chu offers another
origin story for Qing Ming, this time involving the legend of Jie
Zhitui.
Jie Zhitui becomes famous for being a
particularly loyal defender of the noble family he serves; but he
is a modest man and, wanting to shun fame, he retires with his
elderly mother to nearby Mianshan Mountain (aka Jie Shan, or Jie
Mountain) in Shanxi Province.
Duke Wen (697BCE–628BCE) becomes impatient with
Jie Zhitui hiding in the mountain so he orders it set alight to
drive the defender and his mother out into the open – tragically,
the loyal man and his mother perish in a cave under a willow tree.
After burying the pair, an anguished Wen orders his people to eat
cold food on that day and avoid lighting a fire as a way of
remembering Jie Zhitui.
The following year, when Wen hikes up the
mountain to commemorate the death, he sees that the burned willow
tree has revived and flourished. As he remembers Jie Zhitui’s noble
character, Wen is so moved that he sweeps the tomb clear of fallen
leaves and declares the festival of Qing Ming.