This is one Sunday when a faceless gur appears out of anywhere
via a social platform saying she wants to suck my 'rooster' and
drink my seminal fluid - wanted to tell her that there are possibly
higher and / or better practices such as marriage, copulation and
fertilisation that we may aim towards probably even together. Still
it is neither right to deny a mahayanist of 'her' sentient
aspiration, nor is it right for anybody to teach a possibly younger
girl less-than-correct measures of using my genitals, perhaps we
keep our clothes on because of a 'strange' reason that I have yet
fathomed. I am not a Buddha.
"Adhipateyya Sutta: Governing Principles" (AN 3.40),
translated from the Pali by Thanissaro Bhikkhu. Access to Insight
(Legacy Edition), 30 November 2013,
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/an/an03/an03.040.than.html
.
"There are these three governing principles. Which three? The
self as a governing principle, the cosmos as a governing principle,
and the Dhamma as a governing principle.
"And what is the self as a governing principle? There is the
case where a monk, having gone to a wilderness, to the foot of a
tree, or to an empty dwelling, reflects on this: 'It is not for the
sake of robes that I have gone forth from the home life into
homelessness; it is not for the sake of almsfood, for the sake of
lodgings, or for the sake of this or that state of [future]
becoming that I have gone forth from the home life into
homelessness. Simply that I am beset by birth, aging, & death;
by sorrows, lamentations, pains, distresses, & despairs; beset
by stress, overcome with stress, [and I hope,] "Perhaps the end of
this entire mass of suffering & stress might be known!" Now, if
I were to seek the same sort of sensual pleasures that I abandoned
in going forth from home into homelessness — or a worse sort — that
would not be fitting for me.' So he reflects on this: 'My
persistence will be aroused & not lax; my mindfulness
established & not confused; my body calm & not aroused; my
mind centered & unified.' Having made himself his governing
principle, he abandons what is unskillful, develops what is
skillful, abandons what is blameworthy, develops what is
unblameworthy, and looks after himself in a pure way. This is
called the self as a governing principle.
"And
what is the cosmos as a governing principle? There is
the case where a monk, having gone to a wilderness, to the foot of
a tree, or to an empty dwelling, reflects on this: 'It is not for
the sake of robes that I have gone forth from the home life into
homelessness; it is not for the sake of almsfood, for the sake of
lodgings, or for the sake of this or that state of [future]
becoming that I have gone forth from the home life into
homelessness. Simply that I am beset by birth, aging, & death;
by sorrows, lamentations, pains, distresses, & despairs; beset
by stress, overcome with stress, [and I hope,] "Perhaps the end of
this entire mass of suffering & stress might be known!" Now if
I, having gone forth, were to think thoughts of sensuality,
thoughts of ill will, or thoughts of harmfulness: great is the
community of this cosmos. And in the great community of this cosmos
there are brahmans & contemplatives endowed with psychic power,
clairvoyant, skilled [in reading] the minds of others. They can see
even from afar. Even up close, they are invisible. With their
awareness they know the minds of others. They would know this of
me: "Look, my friends, at this clansman who — though he has in good
faith gone forth from the home life into homelessness — remains
overcome with evil, unskillful mental qualities." There are also
devas endowed with psychic power, clairvoyant, skilled [in reading]
the minds of others. They can see even from afar. Even up close,
they are invisible. With their awareness they know the minds of
others. They would know this of me: "Look, my friends, at this
clansman who — though he has in good faith gone forth from the home
life into homelessness — remains overcome with evil, unskillful
mental qualities."' So he reflects on this: 'My persistence will be
aroused & not lax; my mindfulness established & not
confused; my body calm & not aroused; my mind centered &
unified.' Having made the cosmos his governing principle, he
abandons what is unskillful, develops what is skillful, abandons
what is blameworthy, develops what is unblameworthy, and looks
after himself in a pure way. This is called the cosmos as a
governing principle.
"And
what is the Dhamma as a governing principle? There is
the case where a monk, having gone to a wilderness, to the foot of
a tree, or to an empty dwelling, reflects on this: 'It is not for
the sake of robes that I have gone forth from the home life into
homelessness; it is not for the sake of almsfood, for the sake of
lodgings, or for the sake of this or that state of [future]
becoming that I have gone forth from the home life into
homelessness. Simply that I am beset by birth, aging, & death;
by sorrows, lamentations, pains, distresses, & despairs; beset
by stress, overcome with stress, [and I hope,] "Perhaps the end of
this entire mass of suffering & stress might be known!" Now,
the Dhamma is well-taught by the Blessed One, to be seen here &
now, timeless, inviting all to come & see, pertinent, to be
seen by the wise for themselves. There are fellow practitioners of
the chaste life who dwell knowing & seeing it. If I — having
gone forth in this well-taught Dhamma & Vinaya — were to remain
lazy & heedless, that would not be fitting for me.' So he
reflects on this: 'My persistence will be aroused & not lax; my
mindfulness established & not confused; my body calm & not
aroused; my mind centered & unified.' Having made the Dhamma
his governing principle, he abandons what is unskillful, develops
what is skillful, abandons what is blameworthy, develops what is
unblameworthy, and looks after himself in a pure way. This is
called the Dhamma as a governing principle.
"These are the three governing principles."