Do you feel inferior when you read people success stories?

last SG · 2011-03-07T17:21:52+00:00

go where got naked? go wear something one lah. you never attend funeral before arh? Never, hopefully you will not be the first one I attend

Asromanista2001 SG

Nothing to learn from those who got what they want.

Plenty to learn from those who try but did not get what they want.

Success and Failure are lables people invented to describe the two events.

Most important is that you think and act intelligently on what you think.

The results will be accordingly on your actions.

You want to get something, go get it, but avoid the dangers.

You get it = Success

You don't get what you want = Failure, no big deal.

reminds me of the guy who had 10% share in Apple when it just got started..............

he sold off his share for USD800 becoz he needed the money then and also becoz he never had any luck in business....................

he said you just got to make the best decision based on the situation at that time...................just that it was the wrong one..............

fudgester SG

If you read those stories and feel positive about yourself, then you are not inferior.

If you read those stories and feel inferior, then you ARE inferior.

likeyou SG

There is this type of pple who get success.

Manager love him, manager sugar boy.

angel7030 SG

but sugar or blue eye boy also have to pay a price hor, he needs to do alots for the manager, even kneel down and do, act like a dog also must do...it is very simple, but where then is your pride and dignity, the world had become a place where carrying boss and licking boots become the top guy, whereas the real talented and able are kept away.

Ä«Õß:¸ïÀë SG

i don't feel inferior but frustrated that no chance to do what i'm good at...............it's not about money all the time.............

many successful people (provided they're not from rich family) all have some ''luck'' such as meeting the right people at the right time....................

heard too many stories of how formerly poor people meeting the right people that help them become rich...................

you must be doing something you're good at to be successful.................and at the right time....................

Michael Schumacher loves soccer...................imagine if he decided to be footballer.......................no one will know who he is...................

in S'pore much more difficult becoz employers are obsessed with paper qualifications here......................

they don't care much about anything else........................also super difficult to raise funds in S'pore......................banks too kiasu liao..............

so got good business ideas or lobangs also got no capital................

lim peh si beh zue ideas ah....... bao tan lui eh leh....... wa bo lui nia nia..... ni na beh...... Sianz.......

angel7030 SG

lim peh si beh zue ideas ah....... bao tan lui eh leh....... wa bo lui nia nia..... ni na beh...... Sianz.......

got ni, got beh?? i dunno what u toking?

eagle SG

300k not a lot of money to borrow unless you got people rich enough to lend you lah..............

banks won't lend one.......................HDB flat can't be used as collateral if i'm not wrong.

If you cannot even earn or secure the necessary financing, nor confident of doing so, what makes you think you will succeed if there is indeed financing?

eagle SG

reminds me of the guy who had 10% share in Apple when it just got started..............

he sold off his share for USD800 becoz he needed the money then and also becoz he never had any luck in business....................

he said you just got to make the best decision based on the situation at that time...................just that it was the wrong one..............

Of course he has no regrets.

He still retires super rich, richer than most here.

Asromanista2001 SG

Of course he has no regrets.

He still retires super rich, richer than most here.

boh ah.................he not rich becoz he sold off his 10% share in Apple for 800 bucks only...................

he only run a coin store now..................

Asromanista2001 SG

If you cannot even earn or secure the necessary financing, nor confident of doing so, what makes you think you will succeed if there is indeed financing?

so many great products and plans didn't work out becoz without funds................

this is why the difficult part is....................you need several elements to come together..............most times, it doesn't line up..................

eagle SG

boh ah.................he not rich becoz he sold off his 10% share in Apple for 800 bucks only...................

he only run a coin store now..................

I know. But he is still much richer than most here.

At that age, with his networth, of course he would tell you no regrets.

eagle SG

so many great products and plans didn't work out becoz without funds................

this is why the difficult part is....................you need several elements to come together..............most times, it doesn't line up..................

Without or running out of funds means incapable. Full stop.

If the products or plans are really that great, and still didn't work out, it boils down to your management.

If you want to nitpick teeny weeny reasons just to explain and reason out for yourself why you don't want or can't do this or that, by all means go ahead.

You are right that you need several elements to come together, and one of them involves taking actions to do instead of finding and nitpicking reasons not to.

Cheongjungkang SG

its never ending.
dont start. why?
just ask that thaiexpress fellow if he’s satisifed.
he’d probably tell you how he wish to be like peter lim.
then what?

angel7030 SG

for ambitious wise, you should feel abit inferior, that will push you to work harder, for mindset wise, it is not so healthy, cos if you keep thinking of successful people, it add on more stress to your life, which can hurt yr health.

likeyou SG

Just like one of my colleague, local manager favourite. Never scold him, even sick, send mail on behalf of him asking us not to distrub him. We? MC...started to ask why mc. Do one minor mistake, manager blow up as if slicing his flesh.

angel7030 SG

True, you working class alway have such problem everywhere you go, no doubt in studying mgt book, it forbid favoritism, but seem like it can never be erase. If you want, i can recommend you some top shifu to offer you a special amulet, manager will like you

likeyou SG

Dont need Angel. Thanks ya.

My department is already damn terrible.

When the monkey not in the office, all mouse broke loose.

When the monkey is in the office, dead dead silent.

Demon Bane SG

do you feel inferior and useless when you are to read a successful person stories, of how hard he/she works to attain today successful stories?

you are wondering if you are lazy,stupid, have attitude problem etc etc. those self doubt kept creeping up your mind. you also wonder why the successful person is not you?

Well I will be motivated by their success stories....I won't feel jealous...it will make me work even harder in fact !

Veggie Bao SG

Mostly I dont need other people to make me feel inferior.

I know myself and I can evaluate myself.

So when I have character failings and flaws, I curse myself. Why am I so weak, why cant I gather the courage and the discipline to do this and that.

Yach SG

do you feel inferior and useless when you are to read a successful person stories, of how hard he/she works to attain today successful stories?

you are wondering if you are lazy,stupid, have attitude problem etc etc. those self doubt kept creeping up your mind. you also wonder why the successful person is not you?

Everytime i open my wallet... take out some notes... i see the same person's face on the dollar note and i feel inferior :(

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