Teaching the Dharma

Dharmadhatu SG

I have heard that on one occasion the Blessed One was staying at Kosambi, in Ghosita's Park. Now at that time Ven. Udayin was sitting surrounded by a large assembly of householders, teaching the Dhamma. Ven. Ananda saw Ven. Udayin sitting surrounded by a large assembly of householders, teaching the Dhamma, and on seeing him went to the Blessed One. On arrival, he bowed down to the Blessed One and sat to one side. As he was sitting there he said to the Blessed One: "Ven. Udayin, lord, is sitting surrounded by a large assembly of householders, teaching the Dhamma."

"It's not easy to teach the Dhamma to others, Ananda. The Dhamma should be taught to others only when five qualities are established within the person teaching. Which five?

"[1] The Dhamma should be taught with the thought, 'I will speak step-by-step.'

"[2] The Dhamma should be taught with the thought, 'I will speak explaining the sequence [of cause & effect].'

"[3] The Dhamma should be taught with the thought, 'I will speak out of compassion.'

"[4] The Dhamma should be taught with the thought, 'I will speak not for the purpose of material reward.'

"[5] The Dhamma should be taught with the thought, 'I will speak without hurting myself or others.'[1]

"It's not easy to teach the Dhamma to others, Ananda. The Dhamma should be taught to others only when these five qualities are established within the person teaching."

"Udayi Sutta: About Udayin" (AN 5.159), translated from the Pali by Thanissaro Bhikkhu. Access to Insight, 3 July 2010, http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/an/an05/an05.159.than.html . Retrieved on 11 June 2012.

An Eternal Now SG

Great article. There are some zen teachers in the west who charge six thousand dollars (usd) for a weekend retreat. Asunthatneversets have a good advise: “if you stumble into a community where they’re trying to charge you money for every little thing and for teachings tell them to fck off”

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asunthatneversets: “You don’t need to donate anything. If you want to that’s great but spending money isn’t a requirement. The community isn’t there to get money out of people. You don’t even necessarily have to be a member of the community, it’s just nice because it has it’s perks with access to archived teachings and you can also have access to restricted webcasts. But it’s not necessary, I’m not a member of the community… But I have friends nearby who are so I have the option to go to their spots to catch closed teachings. If I didn’t have that option I’d probably become a member, but I choose to give back by purchasing rinpoche’s books from my local ling. Either way just know that spending money isn’t a requirement and if you stumble into a community where they’re trying to charge you money for every little thing and for teachings tell them to fck off. There’s a lot of scammers out there who prey on people’s devotion to the dharma, and they’re the lowest of the low.

Even in circumstances where it seems unavoidable like attending a retreat in person, retreats can cost money. But most reasonable teachers will have a sliding scale for their retreats, if you can’t afford it then they’ll ask what you’re comfortable spending, or they’ll simply ask for a donation of whatever size you feel is appropriate for your circumstances. There’s also the option of volunteering to help set up or clean up and that usually gets you in for free. I’ll say this: if a community or teacher turns you away because you can’t pay the full amount then they don’t have your best interest in mind and they’re looking out for their pockets. A true teacher will work with your financial circumstances, because bottom line… They want you to become realized so you can benefit beings.”

Dharmadhatu SG

i was thinking that nbr (5)

"[5] The Dhamma should be taught with the thought, 'I will speak without hurting myself or others.'[1]

was the hardest. One has to have a lot of wisdom and skilful means to deal with all varieties of beings.

An Eternal Now SG

Indeed. Reminds me of:

The criteria for deciding what is worth saying