Sexual fulfilment and sexual frustrations control our life. If
sexual urges are removed from your life, everything will change.
Often we react to sexual life on account of bitter experiences and
we vow not to take same path again but we again does the same
thing.
You become fed up and on account of that you say "NO MORE". But
this is not the permanent solution , it is only a reaction and not
the permanent structure of mind.
Unless the Root chakra is purified, its corresponding centre in
brain will always pull your consciousness back to sexual
satisfaction. You can live the same life as you do live today, but
you can make it much better.
Sexual relationships are not a sin, but you should awaken your
consciousness and purpose of the whole act must be transformed. And
this happens only when muladhara awakens.
So those who do normal sexual act must awaken muladhara chakra
first. Also through sexual act, a female can awaken her muladhara
and swadhisthana chakra if her partner is a yogi. Generally for
awakening these chakras in male body, you will have to practise
kriya yoga and techniques such as 'Vajroli'.
Here I should also tell you one important thing, this is a great
misconception that a yogi should renounce sex, but this is wrong
idea. If you think that to be a yogi you should give up sex, why
don't you give up eating and sleeping also??
The greatest mistake which mankind has been making since
thousands of years is that man has been fighting with himself. You
want to renounce sex but you are not able to do so, hence it is
important that your muladhara should awaken first so that you can
keep your mind free.
EXPERIENCES:
In the initial stages of root chakra awakening, many people feel
power rising from root chakra to the brain and they confuse it with
the kundalini awakening. This is not kundalini awakening, it is a
release of pranic force or prana which rises the pingala
nadi and partially purifies the chakras.
When root chakra awakens, a variety of experiences are felt by
the practitioner. The first thing which they feel is the levitation
of the astral or subtle body, you will feel that your body is
floating up in the air but this is limited to the astral body and
mental dimensions and is different from what is generally called
levitation- the displacement of physical body.
Apart from this, you will also experience sometimes the psychic
phenomenas like clairvoyance and clairaudience.
Other experiences includes the feeling of heat in the coccyx
area and a creeping sensation like something moving up the spinal
chord.
In most cases, when the power reaches the manipura or solar
plexus, it starts descending down to muladhara, though usually you
will feel energy reaching upto your brain but actually a very small
portion of energy ascends upto brain.
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