You are asking a question which I'm very interested in.
What I understand from shifu is as follow :
I can explain better in Chinese.
见性一定要超越绝对，没有对立。要超越是与非，对与错。因为我们的自性本来就是清静的。自性如如，不动不静。本性空寂。
My question is how to do it as we are living in a society
where there are times when there are absolute right and wrong.
Later I realise what shifu meant is not for us to behave like a
stone. What he meant is we still can have views of right and wrong
but let go of the thoughts once the matter is settled.
There is a Buddhist story, can't remember exactly but it
is something like that : A young monk and an old monk met
a young lady while crossing a river. The young lady asked the old
monk to carry her across the river. The old monk carried her across
the river and let her down after crossing the river.
The young monk was very puzzled and asked the old monk why he
carried the young lady as he was a monk. Monks are supposed to
distance themselves from 色. The old monk replied he had already let
go of the lady just now and why the young monk was still carrying
her till now.
My si fu keep stressing on the practice 'letting go' 放下, and
当体即空.
I am practicing it for now, hopefully one fine day, the switch
will get flip on.
