A talk by the Venerable Master Hua
What
is the origin and the root? The origin refers to the fundamental
energy everyone needs. Everyone must be sustained by this primal
energy. The root is filiality towards one's parents. Our parents
are our origin. They have birth to us and so we owe it to them to
be filial. If you are filial to your parents, then you are a true
believer in the Buddhas. If you aren't filial to your parents, then
you do not truly believe in the Buddhas, either.
Take
a look at the world around you. Those who really know how to be
filial to their parents wish to benefit the entire world in every
move and deed and word. If people can be filial to their parents,
then the righteous energy of heaven and earth will be preserved. If
one isn't filial, then heaven and earth are filled with deviant
energy. Being filial means that you must sincerely be attentive in
every thought. Be very respectful towards your parents in your
thought. One's parents are living Buddhas at home. If your parents
are still living, you have the good fortune of being able to still
serve them.
Being
filial means you must make them happy. Do things that please them
as much as possible and avoid doing things that pain their hearts.
Cause them to be happy at all times. In Chung Kuo there was a man
called Lao Lai Tze whose parents were still living when he himself
was over eighty years old. He used to dress up in colorful clothes
and perform for his parents as if he were a little child, jumping
around and turning somersaults to entertain parents and make them
happy.
In
general, one's most basis duty is to be filial to one's parents. If
one doesn't behave filiality, one has forgotten one's roots. When I
was still a novice in Manchuria, a lot of people wanted to take
refuge with the Triple Jewel under me. When they took refuge, I had
a requirement. It was that every day they had to bow to their
mother and father. That's because I bowed to my parents from the
time I was twelve, as if people wanted to take refuge with me I
thought that my requirement was the least they could do to show
their sincerity.
The
thing that makes me happiest is when people are filial to their
parents.
It's said:
Heaven and earth regard filiality as being
what is most important and foremost.
If one child is filial,
the whole family is peaceful.
Filial children have filial children,
And all the filial ones can become bright sages.