Christian and Buddha..
I got problem with this cuz my babe is christian and im buddha..
sigh....
Sigh to me, i feel like religion is nothing in our world.. its
just like some rules created which u dont know if its the truth. TO
me, i prefer believe in my own to create my own future. not to let
my life on my god's hand.
You mean Buddhist.. not Buddha..
Hope this helps:
http://www.jenchen.org.sg/vol6no3c.htm
Mutual respect begets harmony
How may a family whose members
have different religions live together harmoniously?
One common principle that mankind all over the
world abides by is the freedom of choice of religion and faith. A
country may have different religions co-existing at the same time,
such as Buddhism, Catholicism, Christianity or Islam. But, we have
to understand that it is the condition arising from love that
causes people to have families, parents and children. It is a good
thing if the family is happy and blissful. However, if the family
members bear different faiths, so long as each member keeps his
faith to himself, refrain from slandering or debating over each
other’s faith, but mutually respecting each other’s faith and
character, then the family will naturally be harmonious.
Further,
the younger generation ought to refrain from arguing with their
elders because it is their parents who brought them up. Moreover,
there is no purpose in arguing with them. We have to practise
filial piety and be good so that we do them proud. Then, they will
feel that their children are righteous, well behaved, and may
willingly join us to learn about Buddhism. This will be ideal.
Otherwise, it is not filial to constantly argue with them. When we
learn and practise Buddhism, we have to exercise wisdom. With
regards to differences in religions and faiths, as long as we
maintain mutual respect, I believe, the family will be
harmonious. 
Freedom in choice of religion
If the children of a Buddhist family choose to
marry a person of a different faith, will the marriage work out
well?
Although a person may be a Buddhist himself, it is not necessary
that his children must also Buddhists. We may, of course, promote
and encourage our children to embrace Buddhism. However, we cannot
force it upon them. Moreover, we should not object to their
marriage just because their partners are from a different
faith.
In
this present age, everybody has the freedom to love and choose his
or her own lifetime partner. Similarly, everyone has the freedom of
choice of religion and faith. No religion can compel its followers
(and their dependants) to only believe in that particular faith,
and object to marriages outside that particular faith. I believe,
as parents, with regards to their children’s marriages, the primary
concerns are the relationship between the two parties and how to
guide their children in deciding their lifetime partners. Religion
and faith are secondary factors; it is their happiness after the
marriage that matters most of all. It would be useful for parents
to counsel their children about the code of family ethics, such as
the role and responsibilities of a husband and wife, and how to be
good parents themselves. If they do not know how to live
harmoniously and fulfil their responsibilities as husband and wife,
or to be good parents, even if both of them believe in Buddhism,
the marriage may still not work out well. If, for instance, the
choice partner believes in a different faith, as a parent, one may
promote the teachings of Buddhism so that he or she finds it
acceptable. It will, of course, be good to establish a household
based on the principles of Buddhism. If, meanwhile that cannot be
achieved, one should adopt the Buddhist teaching of
loving-kindness, compassion and equality towards all beings, in
relation to the son-in-law or daughter-in-law. It is a good thing
for a couple to bear the same faith and share the same principles
and values, with both cultivating together and becoming partners on
the Bodhi-path. It would be even better if they were eventually
reborn in the Buddha-land.