I will never again feel insecure, or feel fear, or feel doubt or
feel those emotions we don't want to feel
I agree that theres something very wrong with the emotional
models of enlightenment and the dogmas that most people have
regarding enlightenment and emotions. (I was feeling a little
frustrated recently conversing with a few people recently, who had
very thick dogmas about what enlightenment is supposed to be)
To correct this situation the 'non-duality model' of enlightenment
must be introduced to get rid of people's misconceptions. (that
means, enlightenment is merely a quantum leap of perception into
the nature of non-duality, and is not about behaviour
modifications)
However that said, we must also know... as Thusness said,
'non-duality, fearlessness and non-attachment' are the three
qualities essential to self liberation.
If there are not these three qualities, then the karmic
propensities are still reacting strongly and one cannot be able to
see self-liberation. There is no true freedom, you are under total
control of the momentum only. There is no seeing and no
liberation.
Thusness says:
u said momentum is at work?
Thusness says:
how is one to realise it?
Thusness says:
Asking who am I, pre-assumes that there is a who.
Thusness says:
Or are we free from the 'who'?
Thusness says:
Does asking 'who am I' that eventually lead to the experience of "I
AM" because it assumes a who from start?
Thusness says:
what is the nature of non-duality?
But again, even self-liberation is a matter of insights, it is
not through effortfully modifying one's behavior to get rid of 'bad
emotions'. Like the following quote says, Self-liberation does not mean that a
self liberates himself or herself from delusorily valued thoughts
or delusory experiences; what it means is that delusorily valued
thoughts and delusory experiences liberate themselves spontaneously
(which may take place in three main ways). (Source:
http://eliascapriles.dzogchen.ru/self-liberation.pdf)