12th Jan 07
Maybe
There's this book I'm about to finish reading called "Maybe (Maybe
Not)" by Robert Fulgum (author of the famous "Everything I Needed
to Know I Learnt in Kindergarten" ) On the back sleeve are these
words-
"I once began a list of contradictory notions I hold:
Look before you leap.
He who hesitates is lost.
Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Better safe than sorry.
You can't tell a book by its cover.
Clothes make the man..."
Isn't it interesting yet scary that sometimes we live by a "wise
old saying," believing with all our hearts that it is absolutely
true, only to realise much later that it isn't necessarily so? We
are all searching for the absolute unchanging Truth (or HAPPINESS)
in capital letters, that has no expiry date.
There's this poster-ad with a picture of a young man yelling at his
girlfriend. His girlfriend's fists were clenched, and she was
pouting back in anger. In that black and white freeze frame, there
is the question on it with no black or white answer, "Life is not
knowing whether to hit him or kiss him." The message sets one's
mind thinking. It seems funny, serious, bizarre and understandable
at the same time. Life is indeed full of contradictions and
paradoxes that we have to figure out-like a seemingly ridiculous
Zen koan which can lead to Enlightenment when seriously meditated
upon.
There is a set of Buddhist contradictory notions that no
one really voiced out-
1. Hey! What do you expect? I'm a Buddhist! Not a Buddha yet!
versus...
2. Hey! Come on! We are already all perfect Buddhas inside!
(Referring to us possessing Buddha Nature)
Is 1. a consolation or an excuse when we fail to do what we should?
How and when should we use 2. to motivate ourselves instead of
using 1. to excuse ourselves? How true is 1. or 2. at that point in
time when you make each statements? Do you live more by 1. or 2.?
Why?