Buddhism emphasizes quality and compassion, but does not
necessarily mean that we accept homosexuality is the norm. Also,
those who perform sex acts like anal sex will be considered as
breaking the 3rd precept on sexual misconduct.
Homosexuality and Theravada Buddhism
by A. L. De Silva
Buddhism teaches to, and expects from, its followers a certain
level of ethical behaviour. The minimum that is required of the lay
Buddhist is embodied in what is called the Five Precepts (panca
sila), the third of which relates to sexual behaviour. Whether or
not homosexuality, sexual behaviour between people of the same sex,
would be breaking the third Precept is what I would like to examine
here.
Homosexuality was known in ancient India; it is explicitly
mentioned in the Vinaya (monastic discipline) and prohibited. It is
not singled out for special condemnation, but rather simply
mentioned along with a wide range of other sexual behaviour as
contravening the rule that requires monks and nuns to be celibate.
Sexual behaviour, whether with a member of the same or the opposite
sex, where the sexual organ enters any of the bodily orifices
(vagina, mouth or anus), is punishable by expulsion from the
monastic order. Other sexual behaviour like mutual masturbation or
interfemural sex, while considered a serious offense, does not
entail expulsion but must be confessed before the monastic
community.
A type of person called a pandaka is occasionally mentioned in the
Vinaya in contexts that make it clear that such a person is some
kind of sexual non-conformist. The Vinaya also stipulates that
pandakas are not allowed to be ordained, and if, inadvertently, one
has been, he is expelled. According to commentary, this is because
pandakas are "full of passions, unquenchable lust and are dominated
by the desire for sex." The word pandaka has been translated as
either hermaphrodite or eunuch, while Zwilling has recently
suggested that it may simply mean a homosexual. It is more probable
that ancient Indians, like most modern Asians, considered only the
extremely effeminate, exhibitionist homosexual (the screaming queen
in popular perception) to be deviant while the less obvious
homosexual was simply considered a little more opportunistic or a
little less fussy than other 'normal' males. As the Buddha seems to
have had a profound understanding of human nature and have been
remarkably free from prejudice, and as there is not evidence that
homosexuals are any more libidinous or that they have any more
difficulties in maintaining celibacy than heterosexuals, it seems
unlikely that the Buddha would exclude homosexuals per se from the
monastic life. The term pandaka therefore probably does not refer
to homosexuals in general but rather to the effeminate,
self-advertising and promiscuous homosexual.
The lay Buddhist is not required to be celibate, but she or he is
advised to avoid certain types of sexual behaviour. The third
Precept actually says: 'Kamesu micchacara veramani sikkhapadam
samadiyami.' The word kama refers to any form of sensual pleasure
but with an emphasis on sexual pleasure and a literal translation
of the precept would be "I take the rule of training (veramani
sikkhapadam samadiyami) not to go the wrong way (micchacara) for
sexual pleasure (kamesu)". What constitutes "wrong" will not be
clear until we examine the criteria that Buddhism uses to make
ethical judgments.
No one of the Buddha's discourses is devoted to systematic
philosophical inquiry into ethics such as one finds in the works of
the Greek philosophers. But it is possible to construct a criterion
of right and wrong out of material scattered in different places
throughout the Pali Tipitaka, the scriptural basis of Theravada
Buddhism. The Buddha questioned many of the assumptions existing in
his society, including moral ones, and tried to develop an ethics
based upon reason and compassion rather than tradition,
superstitions and taboo. Indeed, in the famous Kalama Sutta he says
that revelation (anussana), tradition (parampara), the authority of
the scriptures (pitakasampada) and one's own point of view
(ditthinijjhanakkhanti) are inadequate means of determining right
and wrong.
Having questioned the conventional basis of morality, the Buddha
suggests three criteria for making moral judgments. The first is
what might be called the universalisability principle - to act
towards others the way we would like them to act towards us. In the
Samyutta Nikaya he uses this principle to advise against adultery.
He says: "What sort of Dhamma practice leads to great good for
oneself?... A noble disciple should reflect like this: 'If someone
were to have sexual intercourse with my spouse I would not like it.
Likewise, if I were to have sexual intercourse with another's
spouse they would not like that. For what is unpleasant to me must
be unpleasant to another, and how could I burden someone with
that?' As a result of such reflection one abstains from wrong
sexual desire, encourages others to abstain from it, and speaks in
praise of such abstinence."
In the Bahitika Sutta, Ananda is asked how to distinguish between
praiseworthy and blameworthy behaviour. He answers that any
behaviour which causes harm to oneself and others could be called
blameworthy while any behaviour that causes no harm (and presumably
which helps) oneself and others could be called praiseworthy. The
suggestion is, therefore, that in determining right and wrong one
has to look into the actual and possible consequences of the action
in relation to the agent and those affected by the action. The
Buddha makes this same point in the Dhammapada: "The deed which
causes remorse afterwards and results in weeping and tears is
ill-done. The deed which causes no remorse afterwards and results
in joy and happiness is well-done." This is what might be called
the consequential principle, that behaviour can be considered good
or bad according to the consequences or effects it has.
The third way of determining right and wrong is what might be
called the instrumental principle, that is, that behaviour can be
considered right or wrong according to whether or not it helps us
to attain our goal. The ultimate goal of Buddhism is Nirvana, a
state of mental peace and purity and anything that leads one in
that direction is good. Someone once asked the Buddha how after his
death it would be possible to know what was and was not his
authentic teaching and he replied: "The doctrines of which you can
say: 'These doctrines lead to letting go, giving up, stilling,
calming, higher knowledge, awakening and to Nirvana' - you can be
certain that they are Dhamma, they are discipline, they are the
words of the Teacher."
This utilitarian attitude to ethics is highlighted by the fact that
the Buddha uses the term kusala to mean 'skillful' or 'appropriate'
or its opposite, akusala, when evaluating behaviour far more
frequently than he uses the terms punna, 'good', or papa, 'bad'.
The other thing that is important in evaluating behaviour is
intention (cetacean). If a deed is motivated by good (based upon
generosity, love and understanding) intentions it can be considered
skillful. Evaluating ethical behaviour in Buddhism requires more
than obediently following commandments, it requires that we develop
a sympathy with others, that we be aware of our thoughts, speech
and actions, and that we be clear about our goals and
aspirations.
Having briefly examined the rational foundations of Buddhist ethics
we are now in a better position to understand what sort of sexual
behaviour Buddhism would consider to be wrong or unskillful and
why. The Buddha specifically mentions several types of unskillful
sexual behaviour, the most common of which is adultery. This is
unskillful because it requires subterfuge and deceit, it means that
solemn promises made at the time of marriage are broken, and it
amounts to a betrayal of trust. In another passage, the Buddha says
that someone practicing the third Precept "avoids intercourse with
girls still under the ward of their parents, brothers, sisters or
relatives, with married women, with female prisoners or with those
already engaged to another." Girls still under the protection of
others are presumably too young to make a responsible decision
about sex, prisoners are not in a position to make a free choice,
while an engaged woman has already made a commitment to another.
Although only females are mentioned here no doubt the same would
apply to males in the same position.