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Four Places of Pilgrimage
16. "There are four places, Ananda, that a pious person should
visit and look upon with feelings of reverence.42 What are the
four?
17. "'Here the Tathagata was born!'43 This, Ananda, is a place that
a pious person should visit and look upon with feelings of
reverence.
18. "'Here the Tathagata became fully enlightened in unsurpassed,
supreme Enlightenment!'44 This, Ananda, is a place that a pious
person should visit and look upon with feelings of reverence.
19. "'Here the Tathagata set rolling the unexcelled Wheel of the
Dhamma!'45 This, Ananda, is a place that a pious person should
visit and look upon with feelings of reverence.
20. "'Here the Tathagata passed away into the state of Nibbana in
which no element of clinging remains!' This, Ananda, is a place
that a pious person should visit and look upon with feelings of
reverence.
21. "These, Ananda, are the four places that a pious person should
visit and look upon with feelings of reverence. And truly there
will come to these places, Ananda, pious bhikkhus and bhikkhunis,
laymen and laywomen, reflecting: 'Here the Tathagata was born! Here
the Tathagata became fully enlightened in unsurpassed, supreme
Enlightenment! Here the Tathagata set rolling the unexcelled Wheel
of the Dhamma! Here the Tathagata passed away into the state of
Nibbana in which no element of clinging remains!'
22. "And whoever, Ananda, should die on such a pilgrimage with his
heart established in faith, at the breaking up of the body, after
death, will be reborn in a realm of heavenly happiness."
23. Then the Venerable Ananda said to the Blessed One: "How, Lord,
should we conduct ourselves towards women?"
"Do not see them, Ananda."
"But, Lord, if we do see them?"
"Do not speak, Ananda."
"But, Lord, if they should speak to us?"
"Then, Ananda, you should establish mindfulness."
24. Then the Venerable Ananda said: "How should we act, Lord,
respecting the body of the Tathagata?"
"Do not hinder yourselves, Ananda, to honor the body of the
Tathagata. Rather you should strive, Ananda, and be zealous on your
own behalf,46 for your own good. Unflinchingly, ardently, and
resolutely you should apply yourselves to your own good. For there
are, Ananda, wise nobles, wise brahmans, and wise householders who
are devoted to the Tathagata, and it is they who will render the
honor to the body of the Tathagata."
25. Then the Venerable Ananda said: "But how, Lord, should they act
respecting the body of the Tathagata?"
"After the same manner, Ananda, as towards the body of a universal
monarch."47
"But how, Lord, do they act respecting the body of a universal
monarch?"
26. "The body of a universal monarch, Ananda, is first wrapped
round with new linen, and then with teased cotton wool, and so it
is done up to five hundred layers of linen and five hundred of
cotton wool. When that is done, the body of the universal monarch
is placed in an iron48 oil vessel, which is enclosed in another
iron vessel, a funeral pyre is built of all kinds of perfumed
woods, and so the body of the universal monarch is burned; and at a
crossroads a stupa is raised for the universal monarch. So it is
done, Ananda, with the body of a universal monarch. And even,
Ananda, as with the body of a universal monarch, so should it be
done with the body of the Tathagata; and at a crossroads also a
stupa should be raised for the Tathagata. And whosoever shall bring
to that place garlands or incense or sandalpaste, or pay reverence,
and whose mind becomes calm there it will be to his well being
and happiness for a long time.
27. "There are four persons, Ananda, who are worthy of a stupa. Who
are those four? A Tathagata, an Arahant, a Fully Enlightened One is
worthy of a stupa; so also is a Paccekabuddha,49 and a disciple of
a Tathagata, and a universal monarch.
28-31. "And why, Ananda, is a Tathagata, an Arahant, a Fully
Enlightened One worthy of a stupa? Because, Ananda, at the thought:
'This is the stupa of that Blessed One, Arahant, Fully Enlightened
One!' the hearts of many people will be calmed and made happy; and
so calmed and with their minds established in faith therein, at the
breaking up of the body, after death, they will be reborn in a
realm of heavenly happiness. And so also at the thought: 'This is
the stupa of that Paccekabuddha!' or 'This is the stupa of a
disciple of that Tathagata, Arahant, Fully Enlightened One!' or
'This is the stupa of that righteous monarch who ruled according to
Dhamma!' the hearts of many people are calmed and made happy; and
so calmed and with their minds established in faith therein, at the
breaking up of the body, after death, they will be reborn in a
realm of heavenly happiness. And it is because of this, Ananda,
that these four persons are worthy of a stupa."
