So where is Buddha NOW?
Some sort of realisation or experience doesn't stop anything.
Only correct understanding, and not trapped in 'self' that bond us.
Attachment immediately bond us, the thought of it immediate makes
us a sentient, that's all. In a moment we are Buddha, in next
moment we are sentient. Arising and ceasing remains. So where is
where? Beside where you are standing.
More on Bodhidharma:
Life of the Six Zen Partriaches from Bodhidharma to Hui
Neng
....While still in India,
Patriarch Bodhidharma sent two of his disciples, Fo T'o and Yeh
She, to China to transmit the Sudden Enlightenment Dharma door. But
no one, not even Chinese Bhikshus would speak to them. So they went
to Lu Mountain where they met the Great Master Yuan Kung, who
lectured on mindfulness of the Buddha.
Master Yuan asked, "What Dharma do you transmit that causes people
to pay you so little respect?"
Fo T'o and Yen She could not speak Chinese, so they used sign
language instead. Raising their arms in the air, they said,
"Watch! The hand makes a fist and the fist makes a hand. Is
this not quick?"
Master Yuan replied, "Quick indeed."
"Bodhi (Enlightenment) and affliction," they said, "are
just that quick." At that moment, Dharma Master Yuan
became Enlightened, realizing that originally Bodhi and affliction
are not different, for Bodhi is affliction and affliction is Bodhi.
he made offerings to Fo T'o and Yeh She, and shortly thereafter,
the two Indian Bhikshus died on the same day, in the same place.
Their graves may still be seen at Lu Mountain....
So are you looking for some kind of corpse or what? 
Anyway Buddha had no
corpse, his body is self-cremated in a samadhi of fire, and
uncountable sharira relics that exhibits miraculous features are
distributed throughout the world.
