It has alot to do with wisdom and observation. But if it is not
within your control then I do not think you will have any karma for
causing the "wrong".
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"excuse me, are you a Bodhisattva?", I posted:
That's great
This is not psychic
ability, it is called wisdom.
From Awakening The Sleeping Mind (one of the first English books
written by my master that is translated and published recently),
Ven. Master Shen Kai (note: the 'pure awareness' mentioned here
refers more to 'awakening' than 'buddha essence'):
4. What is the wisdom of the Buddha? How can we unfold our
Buddha-wisdom?
In order for our Buddha-wisdom to unfold, we need pure awareness;
to awaken ourselves, and also to awaken others. One is Buddha when
one's pure awareness, enlightenment and cultivation of the
Bodhisattva Way have reached a rounded perfection. But pure
awareness is no simple matter. There is advanced awareness (i.e
knowing the consequence before the event), retrospective awareness
(i.e knowing the consequence after the event) and unawareness (i.e
being ignorant of the event and the consequence). Advanced
awareness refers to knowing ahead of time, before the action is
committed, whether suffering or happiness will result.
Thus, the saying goes: "Bodhisattvas are wary of causes, sentient
beings are wary of consequences". For any situation, a Bodhisattva
knows whether the cause is a virtuous or a wicked one. Knowing the
cause, he makes the necessary ammendments within this cause itself.
He does not wait until he is suffering the bitter consequences and
is full of complaints, and only then make the changes. That would
be too late.
Sentient beings are wary of the consequences rather than the
causes. Before an incident, some people like to behave like heroes
and taunt others, "Who do you think you are? You think you're
great? What do you want?!" Then, they pull out knives and murder
people, or beat them up, or quarrel with people... until the law
catches up with them and throws them into prison. Oh! They will
wail their laments then! Why didn't you know better right from the
start? If you had known in advance, and you didn't behave as such,
then wouldn't everything be fine?