1. Filial Piety as a Way of Requiting the Debt to One's
Parents
In the Kataññu Sutta of the Anguttaranikaya it is said:
Monks, one can never repay two
persons, I declare. What two? Mother and father. Even if one should
carry about his mother on one shoulder and his father on the other,
and so doing should live a hundred years, attain a hundred years;
and if he should support them, anointing them with unguents,
kneading, bathing and rubbing their limbs, and they meanwhile
should even void their excrements upon him - even so could he not
repay his parents.
Moreover, monks, if he should establish his parents in supreme
authority, in the absolute rule over this mighty earth abounding in
the seven treasures - not even this could he repay his parents.
What is the cause for that? Monks, parents do much for their
children: they bring them up, they nourish them, they introduce
them to this world.(10)
According to the *Mahisasaka Vinaya, the parents of Pilindavatsa
(Bhikkhu)(11) were poor and he wanted to offer them his robes, but
he was not sure whether he was doing the right thing. So he went to
the Buddha and asked for advice. The Buddha, on this occasion,
assembled the bhikkhus and taught them the above message, and also
made it a rule that bhikkhus should support their parents
wholeheartedly and throughout their life.(12)
In this passage, it is quite explicit that the Buddha taught filial
piety. This passage is also found in the Chinese translation of the
*Ekottaragama; the same message is given, although the wording is
slightly changed.(13) This suggests that the passage must have come
down from a very old source before the split of Buddhism into
different schools since it is common to both Theravada and
Mahayana. Hajime Nakamura, in his endnotes 38 of chapter 23 "Esteem
for Hierarchy" of his book Ways of Thinking of Eastern Peoples,
listed many references to the idea of filial piety in the Pali
canon, but he missed this single important passage.(14) As a
result, Jan Yun-hua misinterprets that filial piety was a minor
virtue in Buddhist ethics of India.The Chinese translation of the
sutra stops here, but the Pali version continues with the Buddha's
advice on how to repay parents' debt.
Moreover, monks, whoso incite his
unbelieving parents, settles and establishes them in the faith;
whoso incite his immoral parents, settles and establishes them in
morality; whoso incite his stingy parents, settles and establishes
them in liberality; whoso incite his foolish parents, settles and
establishes them in wisdom - such a one, just by so doing, does
repay, does more than repay what is due to his
parents.(15)
This passage, however, with the same message, appears three times
in the *Mulasarvastivada Vinaya translated by Yijing at the
beginning of the eighth century.(16) In this passage the Buddha
recommended four ways of requiting the debts to one's parents,
which are all for spiritual progress: faith, morality, liberality
and wisdom, in contrast to the material and physical ways discussed
in the previous passage. So in other words, helping one's parents
in their spiritual progress is considered much more important than
helping them in a material or physical way. However, this does not
mean that Buddhism emphasizes only the spiritual aspect in filial
piety. This will be clear as we progress in our discussion.
In another passage of the same Anguttaranikaya, the Buddha told the
monks that mother and father should be worshipped and venerated as
Brahma;, as the teachers of old, and that they are worthy of
offering.
Monks, those families where mother and father are worshipped in the
home are reckoned like unto Brahma;. Those families where mother
and father are worshipped in the home are ranked with the teachers
of old. Worthy of offerings, monks, are those families where mother
and father are worshipped in the home. 'Brahma;,' monks, is a term
for mother and father. 'Teachers of old,' monks, is a term for
mother and father. 'Worthy of offerings,' monks, is a term for
mother and father. Why so? Because mother and father do much to
children, they bring them up, nourish and introduce them to the
world.(17)
In the Itivuttaka, the message is found again, however, with one
more addition: mother and father are venerated as "the early
devas."(18 ) In the Chinese translation of the *Samyuktagama, the
same message is also found but mother and father are worshipped,
apart from as Brahma;, teachers and all devas, as Mahadeva, and the
family is also respected by others if parents are supported with
all kinds of things.(19) Then the Chinese *Samyuktagama explains
further:
Brahma;, the king of all gods,
was able to be born into the Brahma; world because he supported his
parents righteously (in the past). If one wishes to make offerings
to teachers, one should make offerings to parents because parents
are teachers. If one wishes to worship one should first worship
parents. If one wishes to worship fire one should first worship
parents. If one wishes to worship gods one should first worship
parents because parents are gods.(20)
The Bhagavat continues: "If one wishes to worship Brahma;, the god
of fire, teachers and other gods, one should support parents.
(Because in doing so) one will obtain a good name in this life and
will be born into heaven in the next life."
Here we can see that the message in the Anguttaranikaya, the
Itivuttaka and the Chinese translation of the *Samyuktagama is the
same: that parents should be honored, respected and worshipped as
Brahma;, as teachers and as gods and that they are worthy of
offerings although new items have been added in the latter two
texts.
In the Anguttaranikaya, a Brahman asks the Buddha about sacrifice
that involves a lot of killing of cows and other animals. The
Buddha describes, with sacrificial terminology, three types of
fires: parents, family members and religious men, which should be
attended with care and honor, instead of worshipping the actual
fire, which was considered a heretic practice.
The first fire is parents who should be honored and cared for; the
second fire is one's wife and children, employees and dependents;
the third fire represents religious persons who have either
attained the goal of arahantship or have embarked on a course of
training for the elimination of negative mental traits. The Buddha
said to the Brahman: "these three fires, when esteemed, revered,
venerated, respected, must bring best happiness."(21)
This sutra is also found in both Chinese translations of the
*Samyuktagama; the first is named the root fire because all
children are born from parents. Therefore the root should be
respected, honored and supported, and should be made happy. The
second is named family fire because a good man lives in a family
sharing both happiness and difficulties with all other family
members. A man should support all family members and make them
happy. The third is named field fire because religious men such as
Sramanas and Brahmans are the field of merit and should be offered
necessities by family men.(22)
Thus in both the Pali and Chinese versions of the sutra, parents
are considered the first fire that should be maintained, honored
and respected by good family men, followed by other members of the
family and religious men.
In the Samyuttanikaya, it says: "Mother is the good friend dwelling
in the home."(23) The same expression is also found in the other
Chinese translation of the *Samyuktagama.(24) However, in
Gunabhadra's translation of the *Samyuktagama, the expression is
quite different. "A good faithful virtuous wife is the good friend
dwelling in the home."(25)
Then in the Vasala Sutta of the Suttanipata, which is also found in
the Chinese *Samyuktagama, the Buddha discusses what an outcast
consists of with a fire-worshipping Brahman. The Buddha says that
not by birth but by ethical conduct does one become an outcast or a
Brahmana. The Brahman caste consists of many ethical conducts,
among which are supporting and venerating one's parents. This of
course is a reinterpretation by the Buddha of the caste
system.
Whosoever being rich does not
support mother or father when old and past their youth, let one
know him as an outcast. Whosoever strikes or by words annoys mother
or father, brother, sister, or mother-in-law, let one know him as
an outcast. (26)