I believe even if the horoscope/astrology tells you about
something, ultimately it is YOU who can change it... deities cannot
do the work for you or change your destiny/karma. But it is ok to
pay respect to them.
some even said to me that to be enlightened, one has to be a
virgin (like monks or nuns) but after examining a little more.....
think thats not necessarily true needed. after all the historic
buddha was a prince married, a father to his son before renouncing.
its all in the mind to know.
Very true. In fact I would like to add that many Lay-persons
like us, who are not monks and nuns, also attained enlightenment.
So practise and cultivation is not really for monks and nuns only,
it is for everyone. Everyone has Buddha Nature, everyone will
attain enlightenment.
my inlaws are buddhist yet they advice me to pray to the "tai
sui" cos i offend the "tai sui".... i have no intention naturally
and have no intention to criticise anything either.
Are you sure they are Buddhists? Those who follow just folks
traditions, worship deities, are not considered as Buddhists, nor
practising Buddhism. It is those who took refuge in the three
treasures: Buddha, Dharma, Sangha, that are considered as
Buddhists.
BTW, a very happy Chinese New Year in advance 