so to enhance the affinity wif buddha , what do u recommend?
The main purpose of Taking refuge in Three Treasures (i.e
Buddha, Dharma, Sangha) is to 'Jie Yuan' with the San Bao (three
treasures). So if you want to 'enhance affinity' with Buddha, you
must definitely take refuge in Three Treasures. Some people know
some teachings of Buddhism, but they did not take refuge, also no
affinity. Buddha clearly told that to become his disciple, the
first thing is to Take Refuge in the Three Treasures. Taking refuge
is also the first step towards Enlightenment.
currently i hav been recitin 'great compassion mantra' coz i was
once enlightened by 'Great compassion GUAN YIN' ( and i mean she
reali appeared in my dream and tok to mi..). does tis mean i hav
taken refuge by reciting?
Yes, Da Bei Zhou is a powerful mantra so since you have affinity
with Guan Yin you should chant Da Bei Zhou. It is a good practise.
Both my dharma teacher and my mother have deep affinity with Guan
Yin Pu Sa (many happenings before), in fact my dharma teacher told
my mother that she was a student of Guan Yin before
Just that unfortunately she has been lost in
Samsara again. My mother could memorise the Da Bei Zhou in no time.
Her sisters try to memorise Da Bei Zhou for a week also
cannot.
However, chanting Da Bei Zhou does not mean you have taken refuge
in Three Treasures, they are two different things.
i dreamt of my past live too..but i dunno how true can it
be..
My mother also said she used to be able to dream of past lives
often. I think these things are hard to verify, but might be
possible.
does buddhist hav the practise of giving out omulet aka pic of
buddha (in the public) during the 1st and the 15th of the
month?
Amulet or Omulet?
Omulet is a food made of eggs.
I do not know, maybe more in the Thai Buddhist tradition, my
Buddhist tradition does not practise this. Where did you hear this
from? (a Thai Buddhist?)
i told him i no $(coz i experience this b4 and theres no free
ting)..so i rejected . but then he assure mi tat its FREE!!but
still i din take it ..
wats ur opinion on tis?
Who is this person? Someone on the streets? Anyway I think it
should be fine.
and does monk hav the special ability (due to their cultivation)
to c ppl aura. if im not wrong everyone has a certain
pattern(colors) of aura and not b seen by naked eyes..
Yes it is possible. My Taiwanese dharma teacher used to tell us
to practise well.... whether or not we practise well, they will
know because they can 'see'
He said something like different people had
different aura if I'm not wrong.
Not every monk, but some of them can.
also.. how to tame a wandering mind and how to improve
concentration?
Practise the dharma. Not only sitting meditation, but every
moment even in the midst of your life. Practise Mindfulness.
vast knowledge out tere..but little i can absorb..sumtime i tink
havin juz one 'practical' experience outweight tons of them..
Exactly.
be a little more sensitive..and use ur heart to c the world..u
will hav different experience..
If you can use 'Guan Zi Zai' (read Heart Sutra) to see the
world, then you will be a Bodhisattva. 
Guan zi zai pu sa... xing shen
puo re puo luo mi duo shi......